Relationships

Sometimes you suddenly feel pulled toward a person and you don’t understand why; there seems to be no reason for it. Your electricity and her electricity are perceived to be closer, similar, of the same type, connected with each other – and that may be the reason that you are having such an experience. In a few days, she becomes an important part of you. And you feel as if you know each other from past many lives. Unique relationships build up.

Generally, the relationships are of three types. There are relationships of the intellect, which cannot be very deep. There are relationships of love, which are deeper than the intellect and they arise from the heart. Then there are even deeper relationships that arise from the navel.

The navel relationships are those special relationships which go deeper than love. Love can end: navel relationships never end. Tomorrow we may hate the people we love today. But the relationships of the navel are relationships of deeper and unknown realms. There is love and only pure love, there is no room for hatred.

Love can enslave somebody. It can possess, it can become a master. Navel relationship does not become someone’s master, it does not hold anyone back. It does not imprison, it frees. Love becomes bondage because the lovers insist that the other should not love anyone else but them. Navel relationship has no such insistence.

To get connected with such people is the most beautiful moment of life. My navel relations are rare gems. I find them calm and happy with both feet firmly planted on the ground, even amidst the turmoil. They amaze me. They mesmerize me. They attract me. I can see them standing like a mountain tall and strong. The more I know about them the more I fall in love with them. I can sit with them and listen to them talking for hours…for days…for weeks…... I think magic seems to find them each day, inviting an authentic smile to cross their lips.

They are real and authentic. They don’t put in any effort to mesmerize me. They simply radiate and I feel mesmerized. Actually, whoever comes close to them will have a blissful experience. They amaze me with their intelligence, with their consciousness, with their blissfulness, with their silence, and with their peace.  

Having a soulmate is not always about love. You can find your soulmate in a friendship too.