Relationship work even if you are two different kinds, you can grow together

Relationships between two people is built over years by mutual trust, understanding and respect. People who are different are the best people to learn and grow from! If you’re meaning having different foundation values such as marriage and kids then no. A Lot of relations probably wouldn’t work as wants need to match. But being different people certainly can work! As long as you respect differences.

For me personally I find it slightly boring to be around or with like-minded people. There’s no challenges there, no real fuel or drive that sparks interest or curiosity. i like my partner different. I learn a bit from them and my differences and their differences compliment each other such as one is more direct and one is more sensitive to others.

It’s all about understanding that people are different and the intentions behind it. From personal experience, I was a bit of a pushover, far too nice and generous while my partner was a bit more tough love and he’d keep me in check. She rubbed off on me a bit but in good ways that improved my well-being because sometimes I did put others happiness in front of my own. And on her end, she could be too tough on people and not understand how some people’s feelings would be hurt and I’d have to help her understand a bit and reign it back in, I also helped keep her in check as well. Being different made a good balance. We had different qualities that were very strong but put together we balanced them out. We then kind of became “one” over the years.

Even if two “very different people” includes completely different ways to enjoy life, probably not (one’s way to happiness is the other one’s way to boredom and sorrow). There’s only so much time in life to spend together and have common experiences, which is what makes relationships hold. If instead it goes spent mostly on individual experiences, the two basically grow apart and lose reciprocal interest of course other than for some practical reason of convenience. The “very different” only means totally different ways to approach the same values in life and both are conscious of that, well, it’ll probably work great, and it’ll also be quite enjoyable for both and an endless source of conversations and of course enjoyable confrontation, which are precious ingredients of a good relationship.

Even when they have different hobbies, different preferences on things, they can if they both want to be together. They can take turns to do things or they can try to appreciate what the other person likes. It takes work, but it’s possible. If they have different view on the world and different values, it probably won’t. These fundamental differences lead to constant arguments. From my experiences, changing one’s self for another person also never works out so badly if both the partners are committed however to be together always and bury their difference whenever the 'ego' factor comes into play.

Not even if it's hard it should work well as all it takes is one strong commitment. To be ready and willing to to for your partner all it takes in order to understand and feel each other. To focus on the main picture and not on every single detail. To understand the reason of being married.To understand what's important in a marriage and so on but once you'll have made that strong and confident commitment - then you can be able to build a strong long term relationship and truly enjoy your future life, stay blessed! #kishoreshintre