Relationship is not affected by physical distance

As we know, we are in lockdown for the last 18 months and couldn’t meet our loved once physically. It is normal to have this question in mind that we are not together and not enjoying together, but we can talk to them on video calls, simple calls. This long-distance just teach us patience and we get to know that how much other person loves us by their care from long distance also. We just need patience and just one smile for your partner to make a relationship beautiful in the worst days.

We are physically apart from each other but emotionally attached to our partner. This is the real exam of our life. We should survive it anyhow. We can do many things while in distance relationships also. We can watch movies together as we used to do in normal life. There are many platforms available for watching content together like Netflix. You can have video calls till late night and can remember the old days, talk whatever happened that day. I know we will get bored while doing the same thing every day and Not each day will have a great mood, but then also try to manage things, try to put smile on your partner’s face. If you give your 100%, then obviously your partner also gives their best and I think then No one can kill your relationship.

Across a distance, there is the memory of a relationship, there is the anticipation of a relationship but there is no actual relationship. But not until the distance is removed. Why?Relationships involved both physical and psychological interaction. Obviously, there is no physical interaction across a distance. But we are not usually aware that 90% of the psychological reaction is subconscious, as I subconscious read and respond to your subconscious subliminal cues.

You cannot read these cues unless you are together in person, and that is why long-distance “relationships” are only 10% relating and 90% self-delusion/fantasy. More than that, because there is so little actual information being shared, it is easy for our own subconscious baggage to create fear and anxiety and suspicion .. and since there is only 10% true relating over a distance, there is no ability to resolve the problems that arise. Also … men are mostly motivated for sex and touching bodies. This need is never supplied by artificial simulation, and unless the guy is a total loser, sooner or later he finds some female in his city to touch, kiss … and maybe more to have sex basically because man is polygamous by nature as compared to females.

Even if the relationship lasts, the two people become increasingly unhappy because what they want - the other person - is not there in their daily life. So many ways for artificial means to fail and make us miserable. Stick with people you can meet up with in person 3 to 5 times a week. Nowadays people are actually looking happiness in others.. They themselves are not happy and cant handle loneliness.. But if both the partners have love for each other then long distance relationship is the best experience.. You have to be patient.

Trust matters most and don't break it. Try to find the other persons mindset what if he/she really loves you and if that person is worth waiting then don't leave.. You will sometimes feel alone when you will see your couple friends going for clubbing. And movies or you may be misguided by some people to breakup and find a new guy/ girl but if you really love your partner and have trust that there will be a better future then don't leave because breakup in long distance is really painful. Else you are already smarter to take your own decisions. Cheers!