Relational Intelligence for Transformational?Change
Jess Tayel Dr.
Transformation Leadership Institute Founder ?? Making Transformation, Transformative Again ?? ??Achieve Impact Faster??Build Future-Fit Organisations??Gain Traction & Clarity ??C-Level Advisory ??Strategy Execution
Some months back, I worked with a leadership team, and an employee engagement survey revealed a lack of empathy as a pressing issue. Delving deeper into the survey results, I wanted to understand how is lack of Empathy manifesting within the teams by understanding the specific actions and behaviors contributing to this perception.
This is what came through when asking the teams to elaborate further on how their leaders are not showing signs of Empathy:
While these findings were not surprising, they shed light on the multifaceted nature of empathy and the work needed to nurture it.
Is it really just Empathy?
Sympathy, empathy, and compassion form a powerful trio. Sympathy acknowledges another person's suffering and validates their feelings but can create distance if not followed by deeper engagement. Empathy involves feeling with others, understanding their struggles, and putting oneself in their shoes.
Yet empathy alone can lead to emotional overwhelm without actionable support. Compassion, the final piece, bridges empathy to action, transforming it into intentional kindness that alleviates suffering. Together, they create a complete circle of healing and positive change for both the giver and receiver.
Bringing it All Together
In the corporate and leadership context, "Relational Intelligence" is a concept that seamlessly blends sympathy, empathy, and compassion. Leaders can recognize their team's struggles (sympathy), understand their perspectives (empathy), and translate these insights into meaningful actions that foster an inclusive environment (compassion).
By adopting Relational Intelligence (RI), leaders can cultivate trust, engagement, and sustained success while creating a supportive culture where individuals thrive.
RI extends beyond Emotional Intelligence (EI) by focusing specifically on the quality of interpersonal relationships and the ability to build, nurture, and maintain meaningful connections. It involves understanding others' emotions and perspectives (a component of EI) and translating that understanding into actions that strengthen bonds. RI integrates empathy, compassion, and strategic communication to foster trust, collaboration, and alignment in relationships.
Why is Relational Intelligence Key to Making Change Happen?
If your goal is to create change and build a new reality where people think and belong differently, Relational Intelligence plays a crucial role in fostering a supportive environment. Many leaders understand the concept's importance but?lack the depth to manifest it fully?in their leadership. Bridging this gap requires embracing a deeper understanding of Relational Intelligence and bringing it to life in everyday interactions.
Relational Intelligence Redefined: A Deeper Understanding of Human Connections
In contemporary leadership, Relational Intelligence is often reduced to a checklist, diminishing its transformative potential. True Relational Intelligence involves understanding people beyond their actions and emotions, delving into their motives, mindsets, and values to foster genuine human connection.
Understanding the Human Being First
It begins with recognizing the entirety of a person and appreciating the uniqueness of their experiences while acknowledging our shared humanity.
Going Beyond the Surface
Empathy and compassion are processes that require digging deep into motives and values with an open mind and heart.
We Are the Same Yet Different
Relational Intelligence respects individuality while recognizing our shared human experience.
Remaining Curious
Leaders embodying Relational Intelligence maintain a curiosity that drives genuine engagement and deeper connections.
A Heart-to-Heart Relationship
Relational Intelligence operates on an emotional level, creating a heart-to-heart relationship that transcends cognitive understanding.
Avoiding Labels and Boxes
It recognizes the fluidity of human identity, avoiding labels and categorization to achieve authentic understanding.
The Key to True Servant Leadership
It forms the foundation of servant leadership, positioning leaders as facilitators of growth and development.
Accepting and Adapting
Relational Intelligence requires the humility to acknowledge that perspectives are always evolving.
The Negative & The Positive: The Derailers and the Accelerators
By understanding these factors, we can nurture Relational Intelligence and enhance our impact as leaders and change-makers in today's complex world.
No amount of leadership development will do if …..
Relational Intelligence is not just a leadership tool; it's a commitment to deep personal development and transformation. At its core, Relational Intelligence demands that leaders genuinely?care?about others, embodying the principles of sympathy, empathy, and compassion. Caring deeply forms the bedrock of Relational Intelligence, a quality that no amount of leadership training or development can instill.
Leaders who naturally care enough to actively listen, understand, and connect with others are better equipped to manifest Relational Intelligence authentically. They don't merely tick boxes on empathy checklists or perform for the sake of appearance. Instead, they build meaningful, lasting relationships that inspire loyalty and drive engagement, creating a culture of trust and openness.
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When hiring for leadership roles, it's essential to choose wisely, as not everything can be taught in leadership programs. Look for individuals who demonstrate a genuine commitment to others and a curiosity for understanding different perspectives. By selecting leaders who naturally care deeply, organizations lay the foundation for relationally intelligent leadership, empowering teams to thrive and organizations to transform.
Do we have enough leaders who truly care that can lead teams, organizations and the world to a better and more meaningful future?
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Till next week
Jess Tayel
Founder of the People of Transformation membership & community.
Elevate Change & Transformation high-performing leaders to soar above the sea of sameness and achieve new heights in mastery, influence, & impact without the drag of going solo or slow progression.
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7 个月This is gold Jess Tayel Dr. we often overlook in the busyness of doing, the importance of being ?? I ran a Leading Through Change workshop for an Executive and her leadership team last week, and the biggest take-aways? The value of creating the space to have real conversations, repurposing thinking from title/role to being human first, and enabling curiosity through shared change experiences - building relationships so they can effectively lead themselves before leading others. ??
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7 个月Trust isn’t built on titles or authority. It thrives on genuine connection Jess Tayel Dr.
We agree with your insights on Relational Intelligence, Jess. It's fascinating how leaders who invest in empathy not only create stronger teams but also enhance performance.
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7 个月This is really great information.