Regrets? Sorry No Regrets !!

I am sure many of us would have regretted making certain decisions and avoiding others. In hindsight, regrets arise from choosing an option that was not chosen. Some regrets are minor and inconsequential; we forget them and move on, but others leave an indelible mark on us. Significant regrets usually involve scenarios where an alternative option could have led to a significantly better outcome. In reality, regrets are great crucible events; they can mark the beginning of a rewarding journey.

Just because decisions have consequences doesn't mean one can forever remain indecisive. Therefore, a few regrets are inevitable. But the focus of this article is on taking regrets in your stride and making the most of the situation.

Let's examine a few common regrets:

• "I missed investing in this opportunity 5 years ago, and now it's a multibagger. I had done all the research but didn't buy". Sound familiar? Yes, I missed it, but it's not too late. You have the skills to analyze the share/property market. Put them to good use and spot the next multibagger. Not investing in a current opportunity due to regret over a missed one won't make you any better."
• An engineer saying, "I should have been a doctor" (any one from X profession longing for Y profession) won't help them grow in their current career. The time now is to seize the current opportunity and become the best engineer possible. Invest time in developing skills and knowledge to excel. This applies to anyone who feels their career choice isn't right. Evaluate options, and if there's an opportunity in something you love, go for it. But remember, every career option requires dedication and hard work.
• "I made a mistake, I shouldn't have married him/her." This argument won't lead anywhere. You've made a commitment, so now make the most of it. This article isn't about relationship counseling, but in essence, explore the relationship, find common ground, and build strong bonds. If that's not possible, move on and start afresh.
• "I shouldn't have said no to that job opportunity" or "I shouldn't have taken up this job." Sound familiar? You can't predict the future. At the time of making a decision, after evaluating all options, you choose the best available. If it's not working out, instead of regretting, revisit your decision-making process and evaluate why you made that decision. Reevaluate the job role and move forward. Often, "the grass seems greener on the other side."

Similarly, decisions made within organizations can potentially make or break them. Managers can't forever lament about good old days. There may be many more types of regrets, but one common feature of all the above examples is that dwelling in regret mode is highly unproductive. Instead of lamenting events, learn from the experience and forge ahead. Regret should become the light of learning that illuminates the path leading to successful outcomes.