Reflecting on Language: A Learning Moment About Inclusivity and Awareness
In a recent presentation, I experienced a moment of discomfort that has stayed with me—a moment that made me reflect more deeply on the language I use and its potential impact on others. While explaining how some people within a professional community can react strongly to those they feel aren’t following traditional practices, I described them as getting “uppity.” Almost immediately, I regretted my choice of words. I knew “uppity” carried a problematic history, but only after deeper reflection and research did I realize how racially charged and harmful this word could be, regardless of the context.
Recognizing the Weight of Words
When I said it, my intent was neutral. I intended to convey defensiveness or overzealousness—traits that are common in many niche communities when individuals feel their craft or practice is not being honored. However, intent doesn’t cancel out impact. Words carry their histories, and “uppity” is no exception.
Originally, the word “uppity” was often used in the United States to demean Black individuals perceived as challenging societal norms or attempting to “rise above their station.” It was used as a tool to reinforce racial hierarchies and discourage self-expression or aspiration among marginalized groups. My intent may not have been problematic, but that doesn’t change the word’s fraught past and its potential to cause harm.
The Importance of Research and Self-Reflection
Feeling unsettled by my choice of words, I took some time to research “uppity” in more depth. What I learned reinforced my discomfort: this word has no place in respectful, inclusive language, and I regret that it slipped into my vocabulary. Learning more about its origins underscored how easily problematic language can creep into our everyday speech if we’re not vigilant. The experience reminded me of the importance of research, humility, and a willingness to grow.
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Growth Through Apology and Awareness
I want to apologize to anyone who may have felt uncomfortable or taken offense at my words. I am committed to doing better, and I’m sharing this experience not only to hold myself accountable but also to encourage others to consider the power of their words. We’re all continually learning, and moments like these are important opportunities for self-awareness and growth.
If I need to convey this kind of sentiment in the future, there are alternative words I’ll use—ones that communicate my point without problematic connotations:
Each of these words conveys the meaning I intended without invoking a painful history.
Creating Inclusive Environments with Language
This experience is a reminder of the responsibility we all share in fostering inclusive, respectful spaces. Language is a powerful tool, one that reflects our values and can either welcome or alienate others. For those of us who aim to build environments of understanding and inclusivity, it’s vital that we remain mindful of the language we use, acknowledging the impact it has on everyone—regardless of our intent.
Thank you for reading and for being part of this journey of growth and awareness with me. Let’s continue working together to create spaces where everyone feels valued and understood, not only through our actions but also through the words we choose.