Reducing partnership paranoia - building trust through mistrust
building trust through mistrust

Reducing partnership paranoia - building trust through mistrust

A partnership built on mistrust might sound a bit crazy, but it can lead to a surprisingly resilient and long-lasting relationship. Instead of sitting back and assuming your partner will handle everything with honour and integrity you are both constantly checking on each other - it's like having a built-in quality control system.

It is the epitome of mutual accountability - in a mistrustful partnership, both sides are aware of being scrutinised by the other side, which reduces the likelihood of slacking off or taking shortcuts. Every move gets examined and every decision challenged leading to a level of care and diligence that empowers both parties.

Continuous surveillance also ensures that issues are identified before they escalate into bigger problems - it's like having a superpower that allows you to foresee and address problems proactively.

In a mistrustful partnership contract, everything is usually spelt out in detail, with little or no room for ambiguity or misunderstandings. This clarity and precision, where every clause has been debated, dissected and agreed upon, will instil confidence.

So, while trust is good, a bit of healthy mistrust will keep both parties on their toes, ensuring a resilient, thorough and surprisingly long-lasting partnership that will reduce your partnership paranoia.



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Ishu Bansal

Optimizing logistics and transportation with a passion for excellence | Building Ecosystem for Logistics Industry | Analytics-driven Logistics

9 个月

Have you ever experienced the benefits of incorporating a healthy dose of scepticism in your partnerships? Share your insights! #Trust #Partnerships.

Jenny Griesel

PR with passion & purpose

9 个月

Great insights here James Scott I see it all too often, especially in the creative world, where people don't enjoy admin, so they avoid it, making some of the assumptions you mention, with disastrous consequences down the line. Multiple checks & balances are a very healthy thing!

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