RE:direction & Identity Reflections.

What life do you want??

This needs to be addressed in early stages to avoid delay or being side-tracked. This is the most primary pivotal point in one’s life when asked in honesty. Sincerely, the answers to this question once asked is the beginning of every journey known to anybody. It is very difficult to provide a concrete answer to this question but the good news is that you shouldn’t be so brutally honest with yourself at first. I am referring to beating yourself up beyond reason. But at the moment, take time to mend & to soothe your mind with as much positive energy from whichever source you are drawing from. To some, ground coffee in the morning along with a cigarette is enough to kickstart the day. & that’s ok because that’s just how some begin their morning. What you don’t want is doing that the entire day. & that is easy to fall into without the discipline or knowing what you should devote the rest of your time to at any given day.

This is where you will ask yourself honest questions requiring you to face your own accountability & be responsible enough to face doubts & fears with integrity. You’ll feel like taking a firm grip on the security of knowing that you can come up with the answers because it's common practice to believe in yourself. At first to some degree. & that’s normally how it will work for people & consider it a joy & a blessing when you’ve reached a point from pursuing maturity & facing the daily challenges of growing up daily. There are many things that maturing into adult life is going to ask of you & you either co-operate or you lose the days to come & eventually forfeit opportunities of what could be a great future & a rewarding life. So asking the right questions daily is what will dictate your steps. It's just the law of the land that needs to be adhered to regardless of what you are facing, whichever personal beliefs or interests you abide by. There are rules that come with the busyness & social standards of life & asking the right questions can put you on top of your game. A good friend had said that life isn’t a game but a journey but I can’t help notice that this reality hardly applies in the common community. & of course, you can refer to your daily life practice, place of employment & even in belief organizations like the church. Let alone within your relational circles like family & friends.

So, the madness starts somewhere & beginning at this starting point will help break down certain hindrances of your conscious self & dissect what truly matters. It is what’s going to propel you to a life of integrity & develop within substantial value from gaining momentum through life experiences & cultivated belief patterns enabling growth both mentally, & spiritually. Honest questions answered honestly is the primary key to be used when giving life a shot when there is just so much ‘stuff’ to either aid or derail you. You make what you can from & out of it.