Redemption: Is a Second Chance Possible?

Redemption: Is a Second Chance Possible?

The US singer Chris Brown is about to embark on a tour of South Africa. In less than two hours he was able to sell out tickets, 94,000 of them, at the FNB Stadium in Johannesburg. On the other side of this record-selling feat is a large movement to ban him from singing in the country. Some 20,000 signatures have complained that it is not right to allow someone who has had a history of violence to sing there. Most notable is the altercation with Rhianna in 2009, but there have been more. This protest is quite prescient in a country that is already struggling with high cases of femicide and gender-based violence.

It got me thinking about how we make individual and collective decisions about how we treat those with a past that we consider unsavoury. Both in a personal and corporate setting.

In any society, people are often defined not only by their actions but by their perceived past, especially when that past involves wrongdoing or criminal activity. This raises important ethical and societal questions. How should we treat individuals who have committed offences but whose lives may have changed for the better? Is there room for forgiveness, rehabilitation, and a fresh start, or should the stigma of their past actions forever haunt them?

These questions invite us to explore the cultural norms that shape our perceptions of those who have offended.

The Difference Between Being Charged and Convicted

When considering how to treat someone with a criminal record, we should distinguish between being charged with an offence and being convicted of one.

A charge is not a conviction; it is an accusation. The legal principle of "innocent until proven guilty" should govern our judgment of those who have been charged but ultimately cleared. However, societal biases often blur this distinction, casting suspicion on individuals even after they have been exonerated. Think OJ Simpson. Or more recently in the UK, the case of the footballer Mason Greenwood.

So, should someone who has been cleared of all charges be treated differently?

The answer seems straightforward—they should not be, yet, the lingering stigma of having once been charged may still lead to unequal perception and treatment.

Our cultural and psychological biases make it difficult to completely absolve individuals of suspicion, even if legally cleared. This is especially true when the person in question is a high-profile individual, where media attention can amplify the social perception of guilt. Unfortunately, this contributes to an unjust paradox. Even when legally innocent, the individual may still face social ostracism, missed opportunities, and the burden of an undeserved reputation.

Life After Conviction?

A more complex issue arises when individuals have been convicted, served their sentence, and now seek to reintegrate into society.

Legally, once a person has "done the time," they are supposed to be free from further punishment, but is that what truly happens? Many ex-offenders find that they are treated differently long after their official punishment ends. Employment opportunities, housing, and even personal relationships can be impacted by the stigma of a criminal record. And if you are not in the financial position of someone who is high profile or famous, how do you bounce back from that?

Herein lies a moral dilemma.

How does a fair and just society continue to punish individuals for crimes they have already paid for? If the purpose of the criminal justice system includes rehabilitation, then we must be willing to allow individuals to rebuild their lives. No? Denying them this opportunity only perpetuates the cycle of crime and recidivism, as many are left with no viable path forward. This is especially critical for those who committed minor offences or who have shown substantial evidence of personal growth and change. For these individuals, should the label "ex-offender" define them forever, or should we allow them the space to forge a new identity? And what do we mean by ex-offender anyway?

The Power of Public Opinion

High-profile individuals who commit offences tend to experience greater public scrutiny and harsher judgment, regardless of the severity of their crime. Mass and social media coverage can fuel this, turning an individual into a symbol of societal outrage or an example of moral decay. Conversely, less attention may be given to everyday individuals who commit similar offences. This disparity raises important questions about fairness. Does someone deserve harsher or more lenient treatment because of their status? Would we be demanding the same of Christopher Mahogany, the jazz sitar player? A fictional person, but you get my point.

Conversely, some high-profile individuals may receive greater leniency and sympathy because of their influence, connections, or ability to shape public opinion. These inconsistencies illustrate the need for a more nuanced approach to justice, one that treats people as individuals rather than as caricatures.

Biases and Cultural Norms: Barriers to Forgiveness

There are deep-rooted biases and cultural norms that prevent society from fully accepting individuals with a criminal history. One major barrier is the belief that "once a criminal, always a criminal."

It would seem a lack of faith in people's capacity for change, assumes past behaviour is an accurate predictor of future actions. This bias is especially pervasive in cultures that prioritise punishment over rehabilitation, seeing criminal justice as a form of retribution rather than a means to reform.

Additionally, cultural attitudes towards certain types of crimes can influence how willing people are to forgive. Crimes that are considered morally egregious, such as those involving violence, sexual misconduct, or betrayal of trust, often carry a heavier social stigma. Even if an individual has paid their legal dues, they may find it difficult to escape the social consequences of their actions. Conversely, white-collar crimes or minor infractions may be more easily forgiven, especially if the person has the social capital to regain their standing.

These biases often intersect with race, class, and gender, further complicating the process of forgiveness. Marginalised communities are more likely to face harsher treatment and less leniency, both in the legal system and in society at large, even after they have served their time.

Forgiveness and Forgetting

At the heart of this discussion is the question, is it ever truly possible to forgive and forget? Forgiveness requires a willingness to let go of resentment and give someone a second chance. Forgetting, however, is a more complex issue. While we can forgive someone, forgetting their past actions may not always be advisable, particularly if those actions pose a risk to others.

Instead, the concept of "forgive but not forget" may be a more appropriate framework. This allows for personal and social forgiveness, giving individuals the opportunity to move forward without erasing their past. It acknowledges that people can change, while still recognising the importance of accountability and awareness.

Handling Judgments About Employees with a Criminal Past

To take this further, advising organisations and leaders on how to handle employees or potential hires who have had a criminal past is tricky. There are several key factors to consider which include protecting the organisation but also about providing an environment that values fairness, growth, and rehabilitation. Here are some guiding principles.

organisations should carefully consider the nature and context of the offence. Was it a minor or major crime? How long ago did it occur? Was it related to the individual’s professional duties, or was it a personal matter? These questions help assess the relevance of the offence to the role the individual will be performing. For example, someone convicted of a financial crime may not be suitable for a finance-related role, but they could excel in other areas where trust isn’t compromised.

One of the most important factors is whether the individual has shown evidence of change. Have they sought rehabilitation, education, or therapy? Have they maintained a clean record since the conviction? Individuals who have committed to turning their lives around should be given serious consideration for reintegration into the workplace. Organisations can show support by offering mentoring, training, and second-chance policies that enable these individuals to succeed.

Leaders must be mindful of legal requirements surrounding hiring practices. In many countries, anti-discrimination laws prevent employers from using criminal history unfairly in hiring or employment decisions. Leaders should ensure they comply with these laws while also adhering to their ethical standards of fairness, inclusivity, and rehabilitation.

High-profile cases pose a particular challenge. Leaders may fear a public backlash if they reinstate or hire someone with a criminal past or even an accusation of wrongdoing. The aim is to create a balanced approach, acknowledging the individual’s efforts to reform while preparing for possible media or stakeholder scrutiny. Transparency about the decision-making process, as well as a firm stance on second chances, can help manage public relations.

There should also be clear policies on how to handle situations where an employee has a criminal past. These policies must align with the company's values of inclusion and fairness. For those charged but found not guilty, organisations must approach with empathy and caution. A person cleared of charges deserves a fair chance to continue their career. However, communication is key—leaders should have open and honest conversations with employees to address any concerns, emphasizing that a legal acquittal or resolution speaks to the individual’s innocence. Where concerns remain, external legal counsel or mediation might help navigate the complexities involved.

The way we treat individuals with a criminal past, whether charged but not convicted or those who have served their time, reflects the values we hold as a society. organisations and leaders play a critical role in this process. By creating environments where second chances are possible and personal growth is encouraged, they not only foster individual redemption but contribute to a more compassionate and equitable society. Balancing fairness with safety and organisational integrity requires thoughtful policies and training, but with the right approach, forgiveness and redemption can be a guiding principle for all.


Chris Brown will probably do both sold-out dates in South Africa. The heat he had on him many years ago which prevented him from performing in certain countries has somewhat dissipated. Selling out the largest stadium in Africa in record time demonstrates some have forgiven, even if they haven’t forgotten. It is also a reminder of how complex and nuanced the conversation is on how we individually or collectively approach second chances for those who have either been charged or convicted of an offence.

Bunie M Matlanyane Sexwale

Lesaka La Basadi, healing & feministing

1 个月

Lovely take on this subject, thank you. Me too! I am a proponent of forgiveness. I do my best to practice it, and even facilitate whole retreats around it, because I know firsthand the healing power of forginess. As for your conclusion that "[s]elling out the largest stadium in Afrika demonstrates some have forgiven," all I can say is, how I wish this were even just 0.05% the case david mcqueen. This would honour the spirit of our foremothers activists from as far back as oral herstory informs us. In more recent history even Mpulo Tutu, Rolihlahla Mandela and others learned that forgiveness was harder work than merely buying tickets for a gig. Our last elections demonstrate how *celebrities" perpetrators of crime working with promoters and the media, are able to dupe crowds into supporting them. No remorse. No demonstration of forgiveness. Just crowds being crowds. Watch the feuds on social media among Mzansi folks aka South Afrikans around this Chris character performing at that stadium. Gillian Marcelle, PhD. I know you wish I could write more on this, and I too do. Unfortunately time is scarce on my side. (added to the intricacies of navigating LinkedIn for me.. like now I can't even see what to click on to send this comment)

Cyril H.

Writer, Speaker, ExecCoach, Consultant, L&D

1 个月

My reading of one of your core messages here is that there can't be a one-size-fits-all approach. If I've read that right, I can only agree. I can't forgive Brown, R Kelly, or numerous others who've violated women — and in Kelly's case, children. But it helps that neither of those named made music that's important to me. I love Kelly's "When a Woman's Fed Up," but can live without it. Brown has a far better voice than Kelly (not a high bar) but all he's done with it is forgettable. But would I find it easy if Gregory Porter, Youssou N'dour, Ronald Isley, Baaba Maal, or Luciano was the sinner? Absolutely not; I'd be heartbroken. This tells me that these judgements are always subjective. It's not just the sins, but the sinners that affect my — and I believe, to varying degrees, everyone's — judgement. There're other considerations too. Al Capone was convicted of tax evasion. The world knows he commissioned and most likely committed many murders, tortures, and other heinous crimes. Does this mean he should be forgiven? Nope! If only criminal justice worked so well; Marcellus Williams would be alive, and Capone would've been convicted of murder. Sometimes the 'court of public opinion' is the best we can get.

?? MAHBIR Thukral

#Employpreneur - Award-Winning Food & Hospitality Entrepreneur ?? International Marketing Director ?? Start-Up Mentor ?? Public Speaker

1 个月

Beautifully written david! ???????????? I was in South Africa last month for a month, and I was shocked to learn at how common and widespread gender-based violence is there. In one conversation I had with a waitress in the restaurant of my hotel, she told me that her colleague was murdered the day before by her partner. The waitress and her colleagues were visibly shocked that they lost someone they knew but how it happened was as common talk as we watch the news in Gaza everyday for the past year. The shock wanes over time the more regularly we hear about it. On social media, I've seen Chris Brown face backlash for his past actions a few times in the last year. He's reacted aggressively directing his message to those accusing him as trolls and justifying that the world has moved on because he still sells out concerts and records. From both a moral and positioning stand-point specifically for this South African affair, he could use his platform to raise awareness and actions against GBV in the country. A marketing tactic? Yes of course but let's be honest... it's still for a just cause. ?? ??

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Trevor Gordon

Winner/Recipient of the Eventfields Black Talent Trailblazer Award 2024. Senior Business Leader, Board Member, Chair & NED. Diversity & Inclusion champion. Performance improvement consultant.

1 个月

Forgiveness, a topic currently close to my ‘heart’. It’s subjective, emotive but necessary in many cases. Can someone do something that is unforgivable, yes, but the majority of second chances are worth giving, albeit, you forgive but you don’t forget. To forgive is ‘human’ and it allows the ‘forgiver’ sone semblance of healing. In some cases ‘forgiveness’ says ‘I am bigger then you’.

Society prejudges the lawless and reoffend era and perpetrators and wish the death penalty amongst many. Even those who are linked by kinship and marriage or mere acquaintances. Wheather it’s jail or prison and the systemic court systems there’s a presumption of rehabilitation and victim impact. Many don’t show remote or atonement. Perhaps society doesn’t feel Chris Brown has atoned enough and gone through therapy and domestics to address the root causes. Just performing out of the country and taking hototoa with fan base isn’t enough. I do support second chance and redemption.

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