Receiving Feedback Like A BOSS
Craig Stilwell
Executive, Board Member, Advisor - Helping Tech Executives quickly unlock high performing teams with online training delivered by C-Level/Senior executives from Cisco, IBM, Citrix, Sophos, and more.
Let's face it: receiving feedback can be tough. But here's the secret - it's also the rocket fuel for your career growth.
There are two key elements to effectively receiving feedback: (1) having the right mindset and (2) knowing how to act on the feedback you receive. Let's dive in and explore how you can turn feedback into your secret weapon for success.
The Growth Mindset: Your Feedback Superpower
First things first - adopt a growth mindset. This isn't just some fancy buzzword; it's your ticket to transforming feedback from a dreaded experience into a goldmine of opportunity. When you approach feedback with a growth mindset, you're not just hearing criticism - you're uncovering valuable insights that can propel your career forward.
Remember, feedback isn't a reflection of your worth as a person. It's information - pure and simple. Treat it like the valuable data it is, and you're already ahead of the game. The key is to be a realist optimist - acknowledging the reality of your current performance while maintaining an unwavering belief in your ability to grow and improve.
Accepting Feedback: The Art of Non-Defensiveness
One of the most crucial skills in receiving feedback is learning to manage your initial reactions, especially when faced with feedback you don't agree with or find inaccurate. It's natural to feel defensive, but this reaction can be counterproductive.
When you immediately disagree or become defensive, regardless of whether the feedback is right or wrong, the person giving you feedback will likely perceive that you're not listening or are dismissing their input. This perception can hinder your growth and damage professional relationships.
Instead of letting defensiveness take over, take a step back and consider why the person has this perception of you. Ask yourself:
●????? What might I have done to create this impression?
●????? Even if I disagree, how can I change this perception?
●????? If I believe I'm actually the opposite of this feedback, how can I take ownership of this perception and demonstrate that more clearly?
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Remember, it's in your best interest - and often your responsibility - to manage and change others' perceptions of you. If you're surprised by the feedback, it's okay to express that, but follow it up by taking ownership of changing the other person's perspective.
A productive response might sound like: "I appreciate your feedback. I'm a little surprised by this perception, but I understand that it's my responsibility to ensure my actions and performance align with the expectations. Can we discuss some specific ways I can work on this?"
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The Action Plan: Turning Feedback into Results
Now, having the right mindset and approach is great, but it's not enough. To truly leverage feedback like a BOSS, you need to know how to act on it. This is where the magic happens - where you transform words into career-boosting actions.
Feedback at Every Level: From Rookie to CEO
Just like leadership, the art of receiving feedback evolves as you climb the career ladder. For an entry-level employee, it might mean learning to take constructive criticism on your work without getting defensive. For a middle manager, it could involve seeking out 360-degree feedback to improve your leadership style. And for a C-suite executive, it might mean actively cultivating a culture where honest feedback flows freely throughout the organization.
Whatever your level, remember that feedback is a gift. It's someone taking the time to invest in your growth. Treat it as such, and you'll find doors opening that you never even knew existed.
At CAREER LIKE A BOSS, we've seen time and time again how mastering the art of receiving feedback can be a game-changer. It's not always easy, but neither is building an exceptional career. Embrace the discomfort, lean into the growth, and watch as your career takes off like a rocket.
Your next level of success is waiting. Are you ready to receive the feedback that will get you there? Let's do this, BOSS-style.
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2 个月Craig, this is great!