Recalibrating Love Wounds

A man with unhealed trauma will avoid being accountable and emotionally vulnerable at the cost of his relationship.

Every single time.

The unhealed man sees accountability as a constraint, and it reminds him of humiliation, harsh judgment and punishment as a child, so he avoids. The more this cycle perpetuates, the more avoidant he becomes.

A woman with unhealed trauma will accept that lack of accountability and connection, eroding her self-esteem at the cost of her own value.

Every single time.

The unhealed woman sees avoidance as rejection as it reminds her of abandonment as a child. She tries to prove she is loveable by seeking demonstrations of security from the avoidant man. The more this cycle perpetuates, the more these needs are unfulfilled, and the more anxious she becomes.

Unless these wounds are healed, the avoidant man and the anxious woman are doomed to suffer within an infinity loop of repetitive behaviour and living in perpetual misery, often thinly disguised as bland and empty ambivalence and toleration.

The healed man holds himself accountable at all times. He freely expresses himself. He runs from nothing. He knows himself.

He does not see his woman’s need for safety as a threat to his independence because he understands that she is healing from the countless times she has been hurt, ever since her first wound, together with generational trauma that exists within her DNA and her energetic connection to the suffering of all women.

The healed man goes out of his way to ensure his woman feels safe, secure and loved. There is no need for games. There is no need for guessing or uncertainty.

The healed woman expresses her needs without attacking her man’s character. She clearly defines and maintains her boundaries. The more she does this, with compassion and love, the more she demonstrates she is a prize beyond quantifiable value and worthy of constant consideration. She knows herself.

She does not see her man as a boy who needs to be controlled. She calls him to embrace his highest self, to be the man he deeply wants to be, the man she needs to show up. The healed man allows himself to be loved, needed, relied upon, valued, respected, appreciated.

The evolved woman trusts in the process. Feeling safe, she unfolds and opens her heart, mind and body to the evolved man in a beautiful dance of acceptance and surrender.

The evolved man understands he has now opened his woman to receive, she is primed. She is a portal. She is sacred. He is sacred. Their union is a gateway to higher consciousness.

The evolved man and the evolved woman are in heaven on earth…

Healing.

It’s lit.

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