Reason Men Suddenly Lose Interest

Before you venture to add someone else to your life, be sure you have cleaned your own emotional closets.?

A?heated argument or disagreement, typically about a trivial issue and between people who are usually on good terms.?

Her?emotional, non-credibility, and unreadable logical reasoning men cannot stand .Difference of opinion is easy to understand.

Address opposing points of view and disprove them or explaining why you disagree with her constantly .For many men her tone of language and body language ticks them off.

If there is someone you are interested in and behaves irritational, make your move to move on.?Men realizes they cannot build their life with this type of woman

Too often?we place importance on things that simply hold no meaning. Waiting for them to approach you is no more significant than if you were to approach first. Life rewards the brave and self-sufficient.

Be you—leave your representative at home on your date.?All too often we are?so?afraid of making a bad impression or their not liking, you end up putting on a front when you are with her.

Constants arguments are warning signals of a break-up.

By?being authentic?you allow them to get to know the full you—not just the parts you feel keen to show.

Do not use communication as a weapon.?There are no rules for when or whom should?contact after a date. If you want to reach out and express gratitude or enjoyment for the time spent together, do so!

Do not withhold communication or fail to follow up until a certain amount of time has passed as a means of playing a game or otherwise gain the upper hand.

Obnoxiousness is?not?sexy.?While open communication is important, this does not mean you should send eight messages for their one. There is nothing more annoying than having several messages waiting for you before you can even reply to one.

Invest in yourself.?All too often we enter into a new connection and become consumed by it. We stop visiting our friends and doing the things that lend fortification to our foundation. You must maintain a life that is entirely your own and offers you support outside of a relationship.

Nothing is creepier, however, than stalking a potential mate on social media. It’s far more fun to allow a natural mysteriousness that comes with slowly getting to know someone rather than overdosing on their Facebook status updates from the last five years.

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Thank you?….Hold the sex.?While this may not seem all that modern, it?can?be when taken in context of current trends. These days more relationships start from what were once casual affairs—meaning that the sex came before anything else.

While there is nothing wrong with this per se, it does complicate things when we introduce the hormone surge from physical intimacy that can sometimes cloud our vision. This clouded vision can make us more inclined to make choices based on innate chemical responses rather than true potential.

Date for the fun of it, not the destination.?While marriage and children is just as much a modern concept as a traditional one, it’s important not to approach every single date as though you are interviewing?a potential partner.

A sense of spaciousness where the journey is in this moment is just as much appreciated as a potential destination, which makes for a much more fun, relaxed, and enjoyable dating experience.

Honor yourself first and foremost.?Ultimately the term “rules” implies that there is only one right way to date; something which I do not subscribe to.

Honoring what?you?feel is right for you in any given moment is ultimately the only sure fire way to ensure you?have a positive dating experience.

Do you want to add a word or two?

Take time to pause and center yourself to see how your body and internal guidance system are calling you. Trust that internal guide and know it will be your greatest ally in creating healthy and lasting relationships.

Nothing destroys even the strongest of connections like pursuing love from a broken place.

Perhaps no song better describes the feeling many couples have when the passion and?sexual desire is gone than the Bob Dylan lyric from "It Ain’t Me Babe": "There’s nothing in here moving…"

That’s how many men and women come to feel in a long-term relationship—as if the chemistry that once tied the two together feels dead and lifeless.

Can you get the passion back when it feels as if it has totally died?

The answer, for the most part, is yes.

Why did he lose interest when things seemed to be going so well? This question is all too common.

This is how it all usually goes down. You meet a guy and feel the proverbial spark. Numbers are exchanged, flirty texting ensues, and eventually, you go on a date … and it’s amazing!

The chemistry is strong, you connect, and you have fun.

You go out again and it’s another ace in the hole. Now you start to get really excited…could this be it??

Maybe you hang out a few more times, but then something changes. Either you notice that he starts to pull away and seems less engaged (commonly known as “the fade away”), or he just?vanishes a phenomenon known as “ghosting”. You feel completely blindsided and shell-shocked.

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What went wrong?

Why do guys suddenly lose interest? Is it really out of the blue without cause or provocation?

No, there is a reason. The reason it’s so hard to pinpoint and articulate is that it’s extremely subtle.

It’s a matter of taste

When it comes to externally oriented issues that cause a man to lose interest, a variety of factors from physical looks, habits, and sexual attraction can be root causes.

For example, a guy can find a woman quite attractive on the first date, but the more he’s around her he might find that she wears too much makeup has quirky or unappealing habits or is not sexually desirable.

In general, aside from issues such as truly offensive habits, it’s simply a matter of taste. What one person finds appealing on the physical level may be a turn-off to someone else?

During the first few dates with a new guy, your vibe is typically pretty laid-back and easygoing. You want to explore the possibilities with him and see what he’s all about. It starts out light and fun, it’s about connecting and enjoying each other’s company.

After a few great dates with a seemingly great guy, most women can’t help but get excited about the possibilities. They think of where the relationship might go and they start to invest in a fantasy future.

When this happens, you are no longer in the here and now, seeing the situation for what it is. Instead, your mind is focusing on what it?could?be and that’s when it becomes a problem.

You become attached to this fantasy future and then you can’t help but stress over it and worry about losing it (even though it’s not something you ever really had!). Then your fears and insecurities rise to the surface and seep into your interactions with him.

?Maybe you missed – or misread – the multitude of signs he gave you when your relationship was beginning to wane. Perhaps you were so wrapped up in yourself that you failed to notice all the things he did the moment someone else caught his eye.

No one likes to feel as if they’d been played for a fool, which is why we’re here to help you out – and prevents you from getting blindsided next time.

A man may think he’s being sneaky when he’s got one woman on the line while he reels in another, but we’ve seen through them and know exactly what they do when they’re interested in someone else.?

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