Is It Really Whatever You Think?

We are energy. All of our humanness – our matter and psychological processes – thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and attitudes consist of energy. This energy vibrates into the universe in waves that either attract or detract from our lives. The Law of Attraction dictates that we attract (high vibration or low vibration) like-kind energy. That is, when our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, attitudes, and ultimately our actions as energy are positively charged, we positively attract wishes and dreams, people, and transactions into our energy field. Likewise, when our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, attitudes, and ultimately our actions as energy are negatively charged, we repel our wishes and dreams, people, and transactions from our lives, thereby also affecting the lives of those around us.

Your degree of success (or lack of it) is your responsibility and thus your fault.

It has always been your responsibility, for only you have the ability to control your energy and thus your vibration. The energy that you vibrate into the world is your making.

Simple, right?

Well, not so simple. It is not always so simple to control our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and attitudes. In fact, we live in a world where social media, conventional media, people, books, schools, and our environment compete to manage our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and attitudes for us. When outside people or factors manage your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and attitudes, they also manage your energy and thus your vibration. When your vibration is being managed by those outside forces, you have chosen to give up control as to who and what you attract into your life.

Oh yes, now just because it is sometimes difficult to control your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and attitudes, you always have the choice to control them. Don’t forget about free will. This is why your success (or lack of it) is your responsibility and yes, it is then your fault.

The magic is in knowing how to reverse a downward vibrational swirl back the other way so that you can and will attract all the great things you love into your life and into the lives of those around you both personally and in business. Here are six measures for reversing negative vibrational energy:

Who’s To Blame? – The first sign that you are in the low vibration zone is that you are blaming someone or something outside of yourself for what is happening to you. Remember, your success (or lack of it) is all your doing. If you are blaming the market, the office, or anything other than yourself, you are automatically throwing yourself down into that low vibration zone, relinquishing all the power and ability to control the circumstances. It is much more empowering to blame yourself because then you can do something about it. You can take back control and turn the vibration back the other way. By asking yourself “How is this my fault?” you immediately begin to turn the vibration back to that higher positive frequency.

Think About What You Are Thinking About – If you find yourself dealing with a string of bad luck, you may very well be in a low or negative vibrational zone. The instigator of your low vibration is usually your thoughts because the thoughts lead to your attitude, emotions, beliefs, and thus actions. Think about what you’ve been thinking about lately. What thoughts have been occupying your day-to-day, and how are they serving you??Are they lovingly nudging you in the direction of your big dreams, or are they destructively causing you angst, dragging you away from your happiness and aspirations? Negative thoughts equal negative vibrations which lead to the repulsion of all that you wish for.

Silver Linings – Find the silver lining in everything. In other words, live in gratitude all day every day. When your tire goes flat, be thankful that the other three didn’t. When you forget your lunch at home, be grateful for the opportunity to try the new restaurant near your office. When a customer you have worked with for a long time betrays you, be thankful for now having more time to spend on customers who adore you. Studies have shown that those who fared best during the quarantine of 2020 are those who basked in the silver lining of each day. Come join the Silver Lining Club!

Energy Vampires – All day every day, there will be energy-sucking vampires that come your way. Sometimes they may be friends or family. Sometimes it’s the news. Sometimes it’s co-workers or customers. Energy vampires are people who alter your mood, emotions, and feelings in such a way that they alter your vibration. If you want to live on high vibrations so that you can live in an attraction mode, it is necessary to profile energy suckers all day. Notice the people who switch you into a negative vibration and spend less time with them. As well, notice the ones who turn your vibration up and spend more time with them. Your energy is a byproduct of the energy around you, so keep it positive.

Give Your Brain a Vacation – Make room for new and additional emotions, thoughts, ideas, and beliefs. Often, we spend so much time consumed by what’s happening in our heads, that we don’t make room for new information, ideas, thoughts, beliefs, and emotions to come in. Make room by halting the persistent and grinding chatter. One way to do this is to meditate whereby you intentionally stop the conversations in your brain. It does not have to be restricted to meditation alone. There are many good ways of shutting off the internal banter such as running, reading, or exercising.

Thought Spirals – If you find you are having difficulty or a problem in attracting the type of life or business you desire, as an aid, try something as simple as an exercise in thought spirals.?This exercise can be used for any desire, but for our purposes, we will look at real estate sales volume. For example, let’s say that you are not doing the business that you wish to be doing. You are on pace to make $30K this year when you know you are capable of earning $200K.?The thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, and emotions required to make $200K are very different from the thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, and emotions to make $30K.?A $200K earner would see opportunities everywhere. They would believe that this market offers the best earning potential. They would see resources for learning, technology, and leads, at every possible corner. They would believe the world is their oyster. On the other hand, the thoughts of a $30K a year earner would look different. They may believe that there are too many real estate agents and not enough business. They may believe that there are no new ways to get business. They may believe that resources and leads are useless in a market with low inventory. There is no limit to their sense of lack. What is most interesting about these two thought spirals is that BOTH are correct. Both spirals will attract what they believe. Thus, if one is not attracting what one wishes, it is simply a matter of mentally and emotionally investing in a brand-new thought spiral.

Postscript: As I was preparing this document for distribution, there was a nagging feeling that an important piece was missing. It’s a central piece that has been woven throughout many of the Mindful Mondays, and as such, is necessary for today. The missing puzzle piece is intent. Intent is at the soul of everything you say and do. As such, when intent is good, it force multiplies your vibration positively. When intent is sneaky, mean, hurtful, or selfish, it either stunts the energy vibration altogether or reverses the flow back into the depths of negativity whereby one goes from attracting to repelling all that was once possible.?