The Reality of Job Hunting: What Happens When You’re Ghosted

Searching for a job can feel like a full-time job in itself. You spend hours updating your resume, writing tailored cover letters, and scouring job boards for opportunities that align with your skills. On top of that, you might take extra courses or certifications to further qualify yourself.

Then comes the interview process. You invest time researching the company, practicing your answers, and choosing the right outfit. You might even spend additional time figuring out the logistics of getting to the interview, and after all that effort, you’re left hoping for good news.

But, what happens if you don’t get that news? What if the company you interviewed with ghosts you? The emails you sent go unanswered. The calls go unreturned. You’re left in limbo, without any explanation. Unfortunately, this is a reality many of us face.

Sarah’s Story:

Sarah, an aspiring emergency manager fresh out of college, had been excited about landing her first job in the field. She’d dedicated hours refining her resume and cover letter, applying for a position at a local emergency management firm. After she secured the interview, she spent even more time preparing, researching the company, and practicing her responses.

The interview seemed to go well. The hiring manager even told Sarah she’d hear back within a week. But that week turned into weeks, with no word from the company. Sarah followed up multiple times, but still, nothing. She was ghosted.

How to Handle Being Ghosted:

1. Acknowledge Your Feelings: It’s normal to feel frustrated, anxious, or discouraged after being ghosted. Job hunting takes effort and energy, and when you don’t hear back, it can be deflating.
2. Don’t Take It Personally: Ghosting is often a reflection of poor communication within the company—not your qualifications or character. Remember, timing and other internal factors often play a big role.
3. Keep Moving Forward: Instead of dwelling on the silence, refocus your energy on applying to other jobs. The more applications you send, the more chances you have to land the right role.
4. Practice Self-Care: Job hunting can take a toll on your mental health. Make time for things you enjoy, stay active, and find ways to unwind to reduce stress.
5. Reflect and Learn: Use each experience as an opportunity to grow. Maybe it’s refining your resume or practicing for interviews. Every step brings you closer to your goal.

If you’ve been ghosted after a job interview, you’re not alone. How did you handle it? Let’s share tips on how to stay positive and motivated during the job search.

AEMO Can Help You Move Forward:

If you’re an aspiring emergency manager feeling stuck, AEMO is here to support you. Our Mighty Network Community is the perfect place to connect with like-minded individuals, share experiences, and gain guidance through your job search. Join us to access exclusive resources, mentorship, and professional development opportunities that can help you take your career to the next level.

Want to get some insights on why an employer might ghost job candidates? Check out this article from Forbes, Job Ghosting: Why Employers Ghost Candidates During The Interview Process

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