The REAL value of quality coaching
A good coach will help you find the right strategies for you, identify the gaps and help you clear whatever the blocks are, conscious, unconscious or otherwise that are stopping you from crossing that gap
But that's only 10% of the value of a quality coach.
The real value is being in their space, being in their proximity, and being in their energy.
Because a quality coach has sensory abilities that account for 90% of the positive impact on the people that they work with,
They have the ability to tune in for what's going on with you, hold the hurt from what you're experiencing long enough for you to find the answers yourself,
So that you can move past whatever is keeping you stuck in a position you don’t want to be in.
You would know someone in your life that, when you hang out with them, you always feel better.
And of course, you would know those people in your world who are drainers, who leave you feeling tired and down.
Most are completely unaware of their energy and their ability to impact others.
They don’t value it, so they think they have to work harder and give more and more to feel fulfilled.
A quality coach has strategies and tools to use their energy, and yours, to help you navigate whatever's going on.
To empower you.
Not take away your pain or tell you what to do because that's disempowering and keeps you in a place of dependence.
It will leave you stuck, it will leave you running the same patterns again and again.
They will instead lessen the load for whatever you've got going on, long enough for you to navigate your own way out of it.
This is empowerment.
Just recently, I caught up with one of my besties and we were just talking about life and stuff.
I did what I normally do which is I allow myself, from a sensory perspective, to see what shows up and then navigate the conversation around that.
It makes for a better experience for everyone.
It doesn't mean I'm coaching, rather I'm allowing the natural energy to present itself to allow the person I'm connecting with to have a better experience.
I follow the nudges, the signs, what I get in my body, what I see from their body language and navigate the conversation accordingly
After that first catch up, my mate managed to feel empowered enough to leave the job that was causing him so much unrest in his mental health.
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It empowered him to be able to take that action.
He realised later that he'd been putting up with that toxic environment for way too long
All this without even coaching.
That's just the sensory element.
He was empowered to take that step and he saw the value in it because he expressed a desire to catch up further.
He might not consciously be aware of it but he was drawn to more.
This has been happening all my life but in the last few years of learned the value it.
If you've experienced this kind of energy and you want to get more context around it,
If you want to experience this energy and get tangible, intentional results from such an experience,
If you're a coach who wants to be able to experience this so they can recreate it (more than likely you’ll realise you're already doing this unconsciously but you can have some structure around it),
Then come and join my Start the Change training next week.
There will be some minor tasking, but it's minor.
The biggest value is that you come into my space, I create a container for you, you will feel better, and you will be able to work this out yourself.
It’s an absolute game changer and will open your mind to so many more possibilities when you realise this power…..the power of your own energy.
And most people drawn to do this work will at some stage realise they have this same ability too,
The same strength, the same power that they will be able to replicate, take forward, and create even bigger shifts for the most important people in their life.
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Btw – check out what a recent attendee had to say
“In a world full of elaborate and time consuming coaching programs that at face glance can feel like more of a burden than of benefit; Ian’s START the Change training was super simple and easy to fit into my chaotic lifestyle, and quickly helped me to gain clarity and perspective on my path moving forward with minimal time input.”
Shaun Kirk - Melbourne