THE REAL MERIT TEST OF 2025
Nancy (Faessen) Michieli
Expert Engineering Communication and Collaboration Coach | Champagne Connoisseur & Keynote Speaker | Helping Leaders Excel In Communication and Team Collaboration
In these first weeks of radical change...
How many brilliant professionals are discovering that technical excellence alone isn't enough anymore? In this new "merit-based" world, merit means more than just being talented.
Imagine walking into work each morning, your decades of expertise suddenly feeling incomplete...
That's what happened to Sarah...
Maybe you can relate.
Sarah was the definition of merit. Twenty years of engineering excellence. Multi-million dollar project executed with success. A track record of flawless technical execution...
And yet, in this new landscape of 2025, she found herself struggling.
Because merit, as it turns out, isn't just about what you know.
It's about how effectively you can negotiate that knowledge.
How well you can bridge divides.
How skillfully can you turn opposition into collaboration?
Nearly 90 years ago, Dale Carnegie discovered something that's painfully relevant today: only 15% of professional success comes from technical knowledge.
The other 85%?
That's pure human engineering.
Sarah learned this the hard way last week...
In a high-stakes meeting about efficiency mandates, she presented a brilliant technical solution. The data and logic were perfect, and the potential savings were substantial.
But when challenged, she did what most technical experts do...
She argued harder.
Presented more data.
Pushed more facts.
And watched her solution die in that conference room.
Sound familiar?
Here's what Sarah didn't know then but understands now:
In times of massive change, people don't just resist ideas...
They resist being told they're wrong.
Dale Carnegie knew this decades ago when he laid out the principles that are surprisingly crucial in 2025:
? The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it
? Show respect for the other person's opinion. Never say "You're wrong"
? Begin in a friendly way
? Let the other person do a great deal of the talking
Sarah's turning point came when she realized something profound...
The same efficiency mandates that threatened her projects were actually causing everyone else to feel threatened too. Her colleagues weren't rejecting her ideas - they were protecting themselves from more change.
So she tried something different in her next meeting...
Instead of presenting her solution, she asked questions.
Instead of defending her position, she listened.
Instead of pushing efficiency metrics, she invited others to share their concerns.
And something remarkable happened...
The very same people who had shot down her ideas began offering suggestions that aligned with her solution. They weren't just agreeing - they were contributing, improving, taking ownership.
The data hadn't changed.
The logic hadn't changed.
But the conversation had changed completely.
In one month, Sarah has secured more project approvals than in the previous quarter combined. Not because her technical merit increased - but because she learned to negotiate with emotional intelligence.
And Sarah isn't alone...
Across organizations in 2025, we're seeing a fascinating pattern emerge:
Those thriving in this "merit-based" environment aren't necessarily the most technically proficient - they're the ones who can navigate human dynamics during unprecedented change.
Think about it...
? When departments are being restructured for efficiency, who keeps their teams intact?
? When competing for increasingly selective contracts, who wins the business?
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? When pitching innovations in cost-conscious environments, whose ideas get approved?
It's not just the people with the best data.
It's the people who can make that data tell a story.
It's not just the sharpest technical minds.
It's the ones who can build bridges between expertise and understanding.
This isn't about compromising standards.
If anything, the standards are higher than ever.
But in 2025, true merit isn't just what you know...
It's how effectively you can negotiate that knowledge in a world where everyone is feeling the pressure of change.
The irony?
In our rush toward efficiency and merit-based everything, the most valuable skill isn't technical at all.
It's the same skill Dale Carnegie identified nearly a century ago:
The ability to win people, not arguments.
So here's the reality check for 2025:
Your technical expertise might get you in the room...
But your ability to negotiate with emotional intelligence will determine what happens next.
The most successful professionals in this new landscape won't just be the ones with perfect solutions - they'll be the ones who can:
? Turn resistance into collaboration
? Transform arguments into conversations
? Build bridges instead of proving points
Because in times of massive change, merit isn't just measured in technical excellence.
It's measured in your ability to bring people along.
To turn "you're wrong" into "yes, let's explore that."
To make data tell stories that resonate.
Dale Carnegie saw it 90 years ago.
Sarah discovered it last month.
And you're seeing it play out every day in 2025.
The question isn't whether you have merit.
The question is: Can you negotiate it?
Because in the end, the most efficient solution isn't the one that's technically perfect.
It's the one that actually gets implemented.
And that takes more than just being right.
It takes being heard.
Ready to move beyond technical excellence?
Join me Friday, February 21st at 1 PM for:
"Beyond Technical Excellence: The Art of Winning People in a Merit-Based World"
In this powerful masterclass, you'll discover:
? Why technical brilliance alone isn't enough in 2025
? How to negotiate your ideas without compromising your expertise
? The Dale Carnegie principles that are surprisingly crucial today
? Practical strategies for turning resistance into collaboration
This isn't another "how to present better" workshop.
This is about engineering influence when it matters most.
Space is limited to ensure personal attention.
Register now: Beyond Technical Excellence
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