The 'Real' Language of Success

As entrepreneurs, we focus on external factors that push our businesses forward: strategies, market trends, networking, innovation and so much more.

However, there is a less visible, yet greater force that shapes our success ...and that is the power of our thoughts. Because we are human-beings first and foremost, before identifying as human-beings in business.

'One Thought' becomes the silent architect of our reality. It can influence our emotions, decisions, actions, and ultimately, our achievements. Yet, many entrepreneurs underestimate this invisible force. They allow unexamined thoughts to poison their potential.

How Do You Talk About Money?

Consider the phrases you use to describe your relationship with money:

"I earn money " .... "I make money" .... "I create money."

Each phrase carries a different energy, meaning and perspective.

"Earning" suggests a need for worthiness (I need to be worthy in order to have this)

"Making" suggests effort (and it;s not inspiring). Whilst...

"Creating" is inspiring. And suggests positive empowered and innovative action.

Are you consciously choosing empowering language?

The Ripple Effect

A bigger problem is that thoughts don’t just stay in our minds.

Just as a stone skimming the waters surface creates a series of ripples, thoughts trigger emotions, sensations, actions and inter-actions.

Positive, empowered thoughts can lead to confident action steps and attract more opportunities. Conversely ...limiting thoughts can result in hesitation, missed opportunities, and poor outcomes.

Interrogate Your Thoughts

Do you want to start keeping an eye on the quality of your thoughts? Great!

...Start interrogating them.

Put them under the spotlight using these five questions to guide you:

5 Questions To Interrogate Your Thoughts

1. What is the origin of this thought? Understanding where a thought comes from can help you determine if it's rooted in past experiences, fears, or external influences.
2. Is this thought serving my goals? Evaluate whether the thought supports or hinders your entrepreneurial objectives.
3. What evidence supports or contradicts this thought? Challenge the validity of your thoughts by seeking factual evidence (not just a hunch, assumption or guess).
4. How does this thought make me feel? Pay attention to the emotional impact of your thoughts and how they influence your unconscious behaviour.
5. What would I tell a friend who has this thought? Sometimes, we offer better advice to others than we do to ourselves! Apply the same wisdom to your own self appraisal.

Greater self awareness (EQ), can become an ally. Don't allow unconscious 'lazy' thinking to become the barrier to business success.

"Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below..." (Joy)

=========================================================

ZOOM Saturday training session coming up: 27th July (Part 3)

(this is on zoom NOT on the linkedin platform)

https://www.dhirubhai.net/events/personalgrowthstrategyforentrep7218610352903639040/

=============================================

????Follow or connect with Joy Langley for actionable emotional intelligence (EQ) tips and strategies that help you grow.

??Ring the Bell under my profile banner to receive notification whenever I publish posts & articles.

===============================================

I help entrepreneurs gain unwavering confidence in their ability to stop mental and emotional overwhelm. And expand their emotional intelligence (EQ) so they can...think better, feel better, and do better in life and business.