The Real Job of (Sales) Management is Getting Into Their Heads

The Real Job of (Sales) Management is Getting Into Their Heads

I do not have a degree in psychiatry.

But as a sales manager, I often felt like I needed one.

You too?

Maybe all you really need is the willingness to listen to your salespeople.

"Hey Boss, got a minute?"

Turn away from the computer.

There should be no rolling eyes or heavy sighs.

Give them the gift of your time and attention before you shower them with your wisdom.

My late colleague, Norm Goldsmith, was fond of saying this:

 You can't influence a salesperson's thinking until you know what s/he's thinking.

That's  why my first rule of coaching is to ask seven questions before giving an answer.

Listening to your salespeople and getting into their heads is a huge part of your job.

It's not psychotherapy. It's just good (sales) management.

You empower people by listening to them. You build loyalty, too.

So find out what your people are thinking. Then (and only then), begin to influence their thinking, Boss.



Joe Luedtke

CEO at LPi | Driving Digital Transformation in an accelerating and changing world.

7 年

Thank you for the simple, yet valuable advice. Listening should be easy, but I find it very hard to do. I know I occasionally sigh if I'm in the midst of something as well. Need to watch that!

Anthony "Tony" Crilly

"Business Development | B2B Sales | Expert in Strategic Prospecting & High-Impact Engagement | Driving Growth Across Industries"

7 年

It can be fun to learn and grow about oneself. With so many personality tests out there..this can be fun to give to your reps to know thyself.... https://www.archetypes.com/quiz/

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That wasn't really my closing remark. It just jumped in there.

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What do you think you need to do? What have you tried? What else? What would be the consequences of trying that? Etc. The response will dictate your next question, Mark.

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