Ready for Change? or Ready for Change!

So many times I've thought about making a change, doing something differently and putting some skin in the game. I've danced around the edge of the idea, procrastinated and made a million excuses about why now isn't the right time. The reality is there's never a perfect time.... perfect doesn't exist in the form we'd like to.

When contemplating a decision I'd quite like a lens into the future.... what is this going to bring, when and how? I bet I'm not alone in wishing for that. A level of certainty that I'm doing the right thing. We tease ourselves with this notion of the 'right thing' when actually the right thing is always the decision we choose to make...... because it was our choice!

Earlier this year I made a choice, possibly the biggest and most challenging choice to date. As a CEO by the age of 32, I had reached my goal and was burning out fast. Full time + in the office, a 4 year old at home, single parent, other charitable commitments to my church and local trustee roles and some time of serious ill health meant something had to give.

I was by no means alone in my predicament, its common amongst many of us! I remember someone telling me - 'Work like you have no children and mother like you have no work' - an impossible task I can tell you!

So then..... the change.... I put skin in the game!

With the help of a coach I worked through what in life was congruent with my values and beliefs. Where was I feeling most rewarded? What did I want my priorities look like? The clarity was a revelation to me as I discovered that the goal I'd been chasing for so long was not congruent with my inner self. I had become what life, society and career advisors had expected of me and not what I wanted to be.

So I made the commitment to change!

As an NLP Master Practitioner (Neuro Linguistic Programming) I loved the coaching work I have been able to undertake over the years and had always wanted to make more of the skills I have.

My passion is helping others to gain clarity and confidence in themselves. Overcoming their limiting beliefs, especially Imposter Syndrome. The secret feelings of:

• I feel so inadequate compared to the people around me who seem naturally talented - I have to work so hard at my success.
• I feel like others know I'm only pretending to be in control, they must be doubting me too.
• I portray a very confident me but inside I feel very different and don't want people to know about it.
• I'm exhausted from trying to be perfect
• People will think badly of me if they know the truth
• I know I need help but I'm afraid to ask

This sound like you? If so I can i help you?

On offer now is my 8 week coaching program - which comes with the below as a standard minimum and will be designed around you and your needs.

8 week coaching program:

• 6 x 1 hour intensive coaching calls
• 2 x implementation weeks
• Weekly homework/exercises to work on identified issues as you progress
• Habit Setting schedule
• Personality Test Access - so we can fully understand your drivers
• Recommended Reading List including a copy of a surprise book chosen to give you some insight into NLP and its benefits.
• Becoming a founding member of the 'Confidently Connected’ online community which gives access to training videos and guest speakers - launching soon.

In addition I’m currently running an offer of the Confidence Workbook which will in future come as an additional cost to the main program.

My price for the course is ￡1,500 - for a limited time only as a launch deal.

What your will your results be:

• Clarity around your goals, values, beliefs and what the congruent you is like
• Increased understanding of the limiters that hold you back
• Increase in self confidence
• Increase in awareness of the wider impacts on certain behavioural activity on others and the ability to intervene earlier in your patterns
• ‘Bouncebackability!’ - Resilience to recover quicker from moments of reduced confidence
• Want more information, send me a message to arrange your FREE discovery call today.