Reacting and observing

Reacting and observing

My wife recently went to observe a class of small children as part of a course she was doing.

Observing doesn't entail reacting. You simply sit, take in what is happening, and then come to your conclusion. This works better when people don't know you're there to observe.

You don't react to everything you observe.

Not everyone who comes across your post on social media will react. But they're observing and coming to their own conclusions.

Reactions, when they're good, give you a dopamine rush.

When they're not what you expect, they weigh you down.

So create, and keep on creating.

Not everybody is reacting, but you can be sure that most folks are observing.

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