Reach Out to Those Casual Friends You Miss
Reaching out to show someone that you’re thinking of them can make you both feel a bit closer. But sometimes we can feel uncertain about taking that first step. Here's how to do it.
First, think of the right way to reach out — is it a text, a phone call, an email, a Facebook message? What will put the least amount of pressure on the recipient? If you don’t get a response, don’t take it personally. Think about this interaction as similar to smiling at a colleague in the hallway: Sometimes you might stop and chat, and sometimes you might not. Instead of expecting a reply, enjoy the knowledge that your message is likely to deliver a little hit of happiness for the recipient.
Set an expectation for a short and simple conversation — it will help avoid the feeling that socializing is another item on your to-do list. And if you do end up talking, share something about yourself — maybe a photo of your pet or child doing something funny — to help build positive rapport.
It may feel awkward at first, but reaching out to an acquaintance will create a spark of joy for both of you while you’re out of each other’s sight.
Read the full article: “Why You Miss Those Casual Friends So Much ."
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1 年GREAT POST ??
Consulting in International Marketing and Brand Management
1 年Good to question if you miss them out of habit or loneliness. Some goodbyes are blessings in disguise and some who stick around through thick and thin are your ride and die together for life. Don't think people and their mindset can grow, be happy/grateful or truly find themselves without it. This modern culture of keeping everyone in your network is overrated, especially with online connections.