Rather than forming opinions form an intent.

Leave opinions at the door. As Humans, we love to form opinions about what is right and what is wrong and we fight about who is right and how is wrong. We often form opinions about others and what they should be doing, and must be doing, that they are annoying, not responsible not caring, and so on…..

We don’t see people as they are their true essence because we don’t see our true essence, so we always see people as we are.?

So, if you see someone as irresponsible

ask yourself.

Where I’m not responsible?

If you see someone annoying

Ask yourself

Where I’m annoying?

If you see someone not carrying not loving

Ask yourself.

Where I’m not carrying and where I’m not loving?

Others are only responding to the relationship you have between You (your physical limited perspective mind, always fearful and defensive) and YOU ( Your Soul, essence of your Being, your Broader perspective )

Others will respect and love you only to the degree you love and respect yourself.

When you are defensive in your conversations, when you are aggressive or even agreeable submissive you are not loving yourself, and others are going to reflect it back to you. This is how it works, and we can clearly see it in all our relationships.??

I love this quote from Eckhart Tolle: “To Love is to recognize yourself in other”?

See unless you see yourself from the perspective of the essence of who you are, from your Being, Inner Being, you won’t be able to see the best in others. And all your relationships and conversations will be messed up.

If you see yourself from a limited perspective of your mind and that is always being defensive, aggressive, controlling, imposter, not confident or overconfident, demanding like if someone has to give you something because you are fearful of not having enough of something, this especially relates to money.

Then you will see others from the same limited perspective of your mind.

What does it mean for you to achieve the results you want?

Your conversations are not going to be effective, nothing good and satisfying can be archived from conversations influenced by a limited physical mind perspective which is always FEAR.

Good question to ask yourself every time you are about to take action

What I’m under the influence of?

Am I under the influence of fear of not having enough of something?

OR

Am I under the influence of the abundance of my Broader perspective, of joy and compassion?

See if you are taking action and you are influenced or inspired by Fear of not having something or you are influenced by worry then you will be reactive and the conversation you are going to have is not going to give you the results that you want.

Why?

Because everyone who you are going to interact with is going to reflect back to you your unconscious state of being and you will not get results that you want.

What is the unconscious state of being?

An unconscious state of being is complete identification with your physical fearful mind, reactive mind, not able to see beyond “What IS”

Now let’s shift that?

Whatever you perceive will be real to you. If you perceive there is not enough money it will be real to you.

If you perceive you are not good enough you will be not good enough.

If you perceive you are sick you will be sick.

?If you perceive you are an imposter you are an imposter.

Now if you perceive there is an abundance of resources, and they are available to you then you will have an abundance of resources available to you.

If you perceive you are confident and assertive then you are confident and assertive.

If you perceive you have always more than enough money, then you have always more than enough money

If you perceive you always have an abundance of time that you have an abundance of time.

If you are going to speak from the Broader perspective of the essence of your being and see the best in everyone because you see it in yourself then those who you have conversations with will reflect your internal state of being back to you.

And you will have the results that you want.?

See it is never about conditions, conditions don’t matter. Your state of BEING matters!?

Conditions don’t create your state of BEING. Your state of BEING creates conditions.

And you don’t need to go down the long rabbit hole to find out all your beliefs this can take you your lifetime to do that. There is a much faster way to do that.

And the way is to realize the essence of your Being which goes beyond psychology. Psychology is for your limited physical mind to manipulate the behaviors of others and that can never give you sustainable lasting satisfying outcomes. The state of BIEING goes beyond that.

You have no control over the behaviors of others. As much as you would like to use different tricks to make others behave the way you want, so you can get what you want to feel good, you can’t succeed.

You can only control your state of BEING and what you allow yourself to be under the influence of.

To be able to control your state of being you need to know who you are, the essence of who you are so then you can consciously choose who and how you are going to be.

We all want to feel good because it is our natural state of being. Something doesn’t feel good, and we don’t like it. Because this is not who we are.

However, the majority still don’t understand that it is not possible to achieve the results that you want by controlling the behavior of others.

This is why the world is so confused and filled with inauthenticity and guardedness, people don’t know who they are and they are playing very small???

There is no need for competitions, there is no need to prove your point of view, there is no need to defend your point of view, there is no need to get others to understand you or approve of you, there is no need to fight what is right and what is wrong.

All that is needed is to understand the essence of who you are! All your guardedness and defensiveness will be replaced by a sure footing of who you are, your true essence.?

If you want to access the essence of who you are to be able to have effective conversations with others from the broader perspective of who you are so you can achieve satisfying results then book a free call.

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