Ramadan is a Time for Reflection, Not Excess

Ramadan is meant to be a time of spiritual renewal, self-discipline, and heightened God-consciousness. It is a month where the focus shifts from worldly distractions to the nourishment of the soul, a time when gratitude and humility should be at the forefront of every believer’s heart. Yet, ironically, for many, this sacred month has become a season of extravagance rather than restraint, a showcase of indulgence rather than sacrifice.

The Contradiction of Extravagance

It is heartbreaking to witness how some individuals, in the name of Ramadan, turn to excessive spending, overloading their tables with food while their own neighbours, relatives, or even close family members struggle with the bare minimum. The essence of fasting is to experience hunger, to develop empathy for those who go without, and to learn contentment with less. Yet, for many, iftar becomes a grand feast—sometimes with more food than they would consume on a normal day. The irony is glaring fasting should teach restraint, but for some, it only shifts indulgence to a different time of day.

Beyond food, there is a culture of flaunting wealth, where those who can afford luxury make sure it is seen, and those who cannot still try to keep up, often at great personal cost. Some go into debt just to maintain an image, feeling pressured by a society that values appearance over substance. The stress of meeting expectations—whether self-imposed or societal—only distracts from the true purpose of Ramadan.

What Does It Mean to ‘Do Good’?

Many who engage in these behaviours believe they are doing good. They give to charity, host large gatherings, and contribute to community iftars. But what is the true measure of goodness? Is it the public display of generosity while private responsibilities are neglected? Is it giving with one hand while wasting with the other? True goodness is in recognizing that extravagance is not just about what is spent, but also about what is neglected in the process—whether it is fulfilling the needs of family, helping the struggling neighbour, or simply exercising personal discipline.

It is easy to say, “It’s my money, I can do as I please,” but wealth is a trust. The blessings we receive are not only for personal comfort but also a means to uplift others. How can one justify abundance while those around them suffer? True generosity is not about grand gestures but about meaningful impact.

Ramadan as a Reset

The month of Ramadan offers a unique opportunity: a chance to reset our priorities, realign our hearts, and truly live with purpose. It is a reminder that restraint is a virtue, that true wealth is in contentment, and that giving should come from a place of sincerity, not social expectation. Instead of seeing Ramadan as a time to consume more, let it be a time to reflect, to simplify, and to redirect our resources where they are needed most.

Imagine if, instead of spending on lavish feasts, we quietly ensured that no one in our circles went hungry. Imagine if, instead of upgrading our wardrobes for Eid, we helped someone pay their rent or cover medical expenses. Imagine if, instead of flaunting what we have, we used it to uplift others in ways that truly matter.

Let's Start with Mindful Living

This is not about guilt-tripping anyone for enjoying blessings, but about remembering that everything we have is temporary. Ramadan is a test—a test of our self-discipline, our priorities, and our ability to resist excess. It is an opportunity to ask ourselves:

• Am I consuming with purpose, or am I just indulging?
• Am I helping others in a way that truly benefits them, or am I giving just to feel good?
• Am I living within my means, or am I adding unnecessary burdens for the sake of appearance?

If we answer these questions honestly, we will see where we stand. The beauty of faith is in its simplicity. When we remove the distractions of excess, we find clarity, peace, and a deeper connection to God. Let us make this Ramadan a time of true transformation—not just in words, but in action.

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