Quinton – The Perfect Sledge
John Toomey
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Sledging has been going on in sport for centuries. Taunts, jokes, quips and even personal slurs have been part of gamesmanship for a very long time. The aim is the take your opponent’s attention off the task at hand, even for just a second, to gain an advantage.
I have heard some sledges that really crossed the line of insult and cruelty. At other times I have laughed like a drain at the cleverness and wit of a sledge.
Certainly, I do not want to see it disappear from sport.
A couple of weeks ago South African Wicketkeeper, Quinton de Kock, delivered what might go down in history as the most destructive sledge ever. He made a comment about Australian Vice Captain David Warner’s wife. Security cameras in the stairwell caught Warner as he completely lost it and in a fit of rage, launched himself at the South African Keeper.
The whole world saw it and I felt it was one of the worst things I had seen in cricket for a very long time.
Warner was admonished but all the while, underneath it all, was a level of “understanding” because something was said about his wife. This, I feel, was the crack that turned into an earthquake.
Many years ago, whilst I was conditioning coach at Richmond Football Club, I was giving Matthew Richardson a stretch just metres inside the boundary, just a few minutes before the game. A couple of opposition fans were hurling abuse at him and it was profoundly cruel and nasty.
I said to him, “How do you go with that Matthew?” He looked at me and said, “Johnny, I love those people. They pay my wages. They paid to come in, so they can say whatever they like. It’s not personal.”
Does David Warner realise that it is not personal? But he took it personally and nothing was done to send a message right through cricket that his reaction and ensuring actions is just not on. He should have been disciplined for bringing Australian Cricket into disrepute. But everyone stood back to see what the ICC would do and leave it at that.
It is not our business how South African Cricket might deal with de Kock. That is up to them. The highest authorities in Australian Cricket should have known that what David did was a terrible example to the kids watching across the world. It validated domestic violence. It was an extreme and obscene act.
But no genuine action.
In their tepid response, Cricket Australia completely and totally sanctioned bad behaviour in the Australian Cricket Team. They added righteousness to Warner’s actions. They added righteousness to the entire team. The leaders of the game, abandoned their team when they really needed it, in the harsh environment of South African Cricket where crowds can be so unwelcoming and the opposition tough.
This article is not intended to say David Warner is a bad person. I do not think that for a minute. But he did something really stupid and was not sincerely helped with it. His team mates were not helped.
Instead, the lack of leadership empowered them in becoming mercenaries.
There is an old Greek saying that says, “A fish stinks from the head down.” Perhaps it is time for the leadership of Cricket Australia, including the CEO and Chairman to follow Smith and Warner and do the only honourable thing and resign. They have failed dismally in their most fundamental of responsibilities, to uphold the integrity of the game.
Smith and Warner, and any other player involved, must do their penance and must make amends. They still have time to rebuild trust as everyone who makes stupid mistakes should have the opportunity to do.
And all of us must learn from the devastation of taking the comment of another person personally. We need to take a leaf out of Matthew Richardson’s book.
As for Quinton de Kock, his sledge didn’t just derail David Warner, it derailed the entirety of Cricket Australia. That is pretty impressive.
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6 年Yes, at least Steve Smith owned his mistake - he will learn and grow from that if he's supported. He did not try to dodge or deflect (unlike everyone else who's ever tampered with the ball) . I agree that the CEO and Coach have let these young men down and it is difficult to see them playing a leading role in transforming the CA (not just the team) culture. All I see a t the moment are classic Executive actions based on damage control (reputational and commercial damage to the business NOT to the people). James Sutherland is talking about Values now only because it's hit the bottom line and he needs to be seen to be reacting. If we needed proof that it's not a game at this level we certainly have it now. Business only! (and the worst side if business into the bargain)
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6 年Nice piece there John! I know a thing or two on these things myself. I've been in the security game on and off for 30 yrs - I teach and specialize in Occupational Violence & Aggression and I can tell you as I tell my students It's not about what happens out there...(street or playing field for that matter) I'ts about what happens in here...(head). You need to get your head right first. Every battle is won before it's ever fought - win the battle in your mind. It's about being strong and powerful in your own being...who you are and the love you carry within. So when people call you names or you find out things about your mother (or wife) you can't let it get to you. How do you stop a verbal fight from escalating to a physical fight?...By developing a thick skin! Don't add meaning to what they say...it's about being a professional whether it be on the field of sport, in life general or doing security work and dealing with dickwads. What do you think a drill Sergeant does when his in your face?...He's testing you - why?...to be job focused! ie a professional. You need to have the power within you to take their power away. The key is not to give your energy to negativity - if you do you make yourself half stronger
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6 年A good commentary John. I didn't realise Smith and Warner had resigned? Whilst we all make mistakes and poor decisions as adults we need to own them, take the appropriate consequences and move on. The blame game can go a long way and to many places but at that "Oh Shit" moment as adults we know what is right and wrong, there are no children or young adults here.
Thinking of what to do next - very slowly!!
6 年The only difference here John is that de Koch was a fellow participant and not paying his wages. Sledging has been around for ever and normally left on the field. This wasn’t and the perpetrator was given 1/3 of the penalty of the retaliator. Additionally we are less tolerant to spectators now days hurling personal abuse at players - Adam Goodes and Greg Inglis come readily to mind. Which is a good thing. From my perspective Lehman, Smith and the others involved should be made to go to every cricket club in the country and speak to those who have been affected most - their fan base, to explain why it is wrong and what is now acceptable. Get them being proactive to address this and re earn the respect and trust they have lost.
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6 年And the message from the failing batting line-up to the bowlers is “We don’t think you are up to the task’. The cheating is a direct response for their own poor performance.