"Question To Verify, Question To Clarify, Never Question To Destroy"
Stanley Tsiamoulis (STAN LEE)
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Let’s say you want to learn about a topic on exercise for weight loss. You may
cross reference with 3 experts in that niche. You have researched the best 3
from your local area, country or around the world. You have done some research
with those 3 if they have their own website or blog or forum posts, interviews
etc.
You then have a list of questions noted down to ask the first person. The goal is
to at least call them directly to ask the questions. Remember you can speak to
anyone even if there around the world. There are tools for this such as Skype.
Upon asking questions you will pick on extra points or words you may not have
thought of. You then ask the second person, you will have practiced and will
become better at phrasing the questions. It’s all in the wording.
So you ask the question to verify or clarify the point. Do not ask the question to
destroy. Meaning you are asking the question because you’re thinking “Oh I
have caught them out, I will go in to destroy” this is ego.
You need to respect the person because that person has mastered his or her gift.
Their intentions may or may not have been good, and you may have assumed
the incorrect point. Your goal is to seek the nugget you need.
Now, by the time you get to the third person your questions have become even
more fine-tuned and tailored to what you need to know. Just go through the
same process.
Cross referencing say the top 10 people in that niche, will give you answers that
begin to form a pattern and the answer will pop out in front of you. Off course
with practice you can get this with at least 3 people.
Begin asking questions. Enjoy.