"?Question To Verify, Question To Clarify, Never Question To Destroy"?

"Question To Verify, Question To Clarify, Never Question To Destroy"

Let’s say you want to learn about a topic on exercise for weight loss. You may

cross reference with 3 experts in that niche. You have researched the best 3

from your local area, country or around the world. You have done some research

with those 3 if they have their own website or blog or forum posts, interviews

etc.


You then have a list of questions noted down to ask the first person. The goal is

to at least call them directly to ask the questions. Remember you can speak to

anyone even if there around the world. There are tools for this such as Skype.


Upon asking questions you will pick on extra points or words you may not have

thought of. You then ask the second person, you will have practiced and will

become better at phrasing the questions. It’s all in the wording.


So you ask the question to verify or clarify the point. Do not ask the question to

destroy. Meaning you are asking the question because you’re thinking “Oh I

have caught them out, I will go in to destroy” this is ego.


You need to respect the person because that person has mastered his or her gift.

Their intentions may or may not have been good, and you may have assumed

the incorrect point. Your goal is to seek the nugget you need.


Now, by the time you get to the third person your questions have become even

more fine-tuned and tailored to what you need to know. Just go through the

same process.


Cross referencing say the top 10 people in that niche, will give you answers that

begin to form a pattern and the answer will pop out in front of you. Off course

with practice you can get this with at least 3 people.


Begin asking questions. Enjoy.

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