Considering an Eldership Method of Relationship-Building

I can't believe we are in the last few months of 2022. As I reflect upon this past year, I am humbled and excited of the many connections that has been established. From social media to my connections in the NYC area, my methodological construct helps me to enhance my personal growth that I would like to share. I copied the SWOT business format and converted it into my personal construct, which are Considerations, Opportunities, Outcomes, and Successes, (COOS).

Considerations: Monthly objectives

At the beginning of each month, I consider what I want to accomplish. For example, how many people I want to reach, or what community events I plan to attend. Then I consider what is my purpose for my selections. And, what relationship-building I want to achieve? Questioning my motives help me to open new thought and alliances.

Opportunities: Open to different thoughts

Ever get into a conversation and it seems like the individual isn't listening to you? Probably because they aren't. So, you and the conversationalist are both missing great opportunities to learn from one another.

Instead of going into a conversation with what you would like to say, take a step back and listen. I have found this opportunity allows me to understand why I joined the conversation. I am able to pick up cues of what is REALLY being said. Here is where the opportunity comes in for an "Ahh" moment. I take mental notes, and ask questions based on the conversation. The call now becomes a moment of bonding that becomes a friend.

Don't miss out on the opportunity to exchange ideas and stories; it is so rewarding and will produce positive outcomes. It all about the opportunity of listening.

Outcomes: Opportunities to enhance change

Within the conversation, consider how you can support without giving all of you. I know it is difficult to be everything to everyone. And you don't have to. Sometimes people just want to talk things through. Take a deep breath and listen. At the end of the conversation review the "Ahh moment" and create next steps. It can be as easy as connecting at a later date, or providing information that will allow the individual to move forward. The conversation becomes honest, thus rewarding.

Take time to consider the outcome. Just be in the moment. It could be you've just made a new friend.

Successes: Measuring success through your lens

Success comes in different forms. My primary successes are the connections that enters my heart. Wisdom dominates my relationship growth, which is the lens that I draw from. Considering that during 2022, I have still lost friends to COVID, I don't take relationships lightly. And yes, in a few months I will reach my 69th birthday; each day is a blessing. Success for me is the consideration to create opportunities that outcome will be new relationships.

Now that the year is coming to an end, I will analyse each month to determine my successes, opportunities, considerations, and outcomes. Then, I will consider how I can enhance my relationship-building for the new year. As I enter 2023, I am more grateful than ever that I can enhance and advance the lives of others. May it be through WOCPSCN, my faith, or global community connections.

My role for the new year is to continue to give the greatest gift of all, LOVE.

Taken 10.17.22,?my daughter Dana's birthday, University of the Arts, Philadelphia, PA, where she is an adjunct in Screenplay Writing [https://www.dhirubhai.net/in/dana-verde-5078542/].

Be Blessed.