Purpose before Opinion

"I Had a Purpose Before Anyone Had an Opinion." – Jalen Hurts

This quote strikes a chord with me—not just as a professional, but as a woman navigating the dynamic landscape of the legal field running my own practice. In law, opinions come with the territory: some are welcomed, many are unsolicited, and almost all are loud. But purpose? Purpose isn’t found in the noise. It thrives in clarity, values, and the quiet confidence that comes from knowing your “why.”

After watching the Super Bowl and hearing Jalen Hurts speak with such humility—giving praise to God and showing immense grace—I was reminded of the profound power of staying grounded. His words reflected not just gratitude but also a deep sense of purpose that resonates beyond the field: "Thank God for the opportunity. Thank you for giving me focus, and resilience, steadfast within it all." That humility and grace are qualities I strive to embody in my own work.

As a collaborative attorney, I often work in spaces where emotions run high, voices clash, and perspectives differ. It’s easy to get swept up in the debate, to let external judgments dictate your direction. But my purpose has never been tied to the approval of others. It’s rooted in guiding families through challenging transitions with empathy, respect, and a commitment to finding solutions—not fueling battles.

For me, the heart of legal practice isn’t about winning arguments; it’s about preserving dignity, fostering understanding, and creating outcomes where people feel seen and heard, even when circumstances are difficult.

Jalen Hurts’ words are a timely reminder: Purpose isn’t something granted by others—it’s something you carry within you. It doesn’t waver when challenged, and it certainly isn’t diminished by outside opinions.

To anyone navigating professional or personal crossroads: stay anchored in your purpose. Opinions will ebb and flow, but your “why” is the true compass that will guide you forward.

If you're seeking guidance through collaborative divorce or estate planning with a focus on respect, clarity, and purpose, learn more about my practice at Leslie Turnage.

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