The Puppet Master

The Puppet Master

When a robber enters your home and steals your most valuable possessions, it is considered a crime. If, someone intentionally harms you without provocation, it is criminal in nature. These individuals ultimately go to jail or prison for their wrongful and willful actions when, caught and convicted.

However, there are some people among us who take the most important aspects of our lives and that is, our mental and emotional well-being. This does not even include, the children we are stripped of and yet, our perpetrators remain free from prosecution. I wonder, how this can happen. Is there a different type of justice system for parental alienators which, shields them or are they just are above the law?

There should be no distinction between tangible and intangible thefts. After all, when we are left holding an empty bag of goods, the loss is still there and our children are still missing from our lives. The family courts must be held responsible for what they allow to happen. Further, they must understand that a crime has been committed and those responsible should be held accountable.

In a perfect world built of blue skies, sunshine and rainbows parental alienation would never occur. However, this is not the case and many families suffer in silence as, injustices are flung upon them from every direction. A child needs both parents in their lives to guide them in a positive manner. This is what defines the term “Best Interest” standards, but often ignored.

Instead, we are surrounded by certain folks who choose to hate more than, the ability their love will allow. These individuals will come to your home and rob you of everything both, sacred and precious. This includes your children, money and peace of mind. These are the alienators and some family court judges become the enablers who are biased in what they do and how they rule.

These are the people who control us much like a puppet master, we wear the strings and they pull us in every direction they choose. On the other hand, the family courts are many times, sitting in the audience and cheer as, we dance about uncontrollably. In my mind, I wonder how I allowed this to happen.

Much you, I was wearing the strings that were flung upon me. There must be justice in our lives as well as, for our children in order to regain a sense of normalcy. We cannot allow our alienator nor, their enablers to destroy the fabric of familial bonds that we are entitled to.

Mothers, father and our children deserve to be in one another’s lives. A child should never lose half of who they are, half of who they can become or even, half of the love they should have received when an alienator chooses revenge against us. When denied this basic and humanistic right, it is never in the best interest of our children and all who are involved in this process must be held legally responsible.

Alienators and many family courts are nothing more than puppet masters as long as, we allow it to happen. It is time to say that “enough is enough” and regain what was stolen from us.

By David Shubert