The Psychology of Everyday Life: Simple Interventions to Build a Better Indonesia
David Wongso S. Psi MM MBA MMin
CEO Davehunt International Indonesia and Australia / Psychologist / Headhunter, UiPath Automation, AI Agent, RPA, Mental Health Chatbot, Executive Coach for career, mental health, holistic wellness.
Crossing Cultures, One Zebra Cross at a Time
Since 2019, I’ve split my life between Jakarta and Melbourne, a journey that has sharpened my perspective on business, culture, law, systems, policies, and—most intriguingly—human behaviours. Every time I experience something exceptional in one place, I can’t help but wonder, “Why don’t we do this back home?”
One habit I’ve developed in Melbourne is walking and cycling—a lifestyle encouraged by well-planned urban spaces and a deep-rooted culture of respect for pedestrians. Crossing the street is a non-event; cars slow down instinctively at zebra crossings, and drivers often wave me through with a smile. It’s not just a rule—it’s a norm, a shared understanding of respect and safety.
But two days ago, back in Jakarta for business and Chinese New Year, I found myself facing a stark contrast. Standing at a zebra crossing in front of Mall Kelapa Gading, I raised my hand, signaling for cars and motorcycles to slow down. I waited. And waited. Most vehicles zipped past, indifferent, as if the white stripes on the road were mere decoration. I had to inch forward, playing a hesitant game of trust and risk, before finally making it across. Many cars and motorcycles don’t even bother to slow down.
The moment left me wondering—not just about traffic rules, but about deeper behavioural patterns. What makes one society instinctively yield while another speeds ahead? Is it enforcement? Education? Culture?
Every crosswalk, every intersection, every simple act of giving way is a reflection of something much bigger: how we see one another in a shared space. And maybe, just maybe, small changes—like a driver choosing to stop—can be the start of something larger.
So I ask again: Why don’t we do this at home?
Especially for psychologists, what can we do? Social psychologists have the tools and understanding to design impactful programs and interventions aimed at modifying societal behaviours. Below are examples of how they can address behaviours like queueing, driving, littering, overconsumption for junk food, and gadget addiction in Indonesia:
1. Queueing Behaviour
Problem: Lack of discipline or respect for others in queues.
Interventions:
2. Driving Behaviour on Streets
Problem: Reckless driving, traffic violations, and lack of courtesy.
Interventions:
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3. Preventing Littering
Problem: Persistent littering in public spaces.
Interventions:
4. Consumptive Behaviour
Problem: Over-consumption of unnecessary food, drink, and cigarettes fueled by social status or advertising.
Interventions:
5. Gadget Addiction
Problem: Excessive use of smartphones and devices, especially among youth and adults.
Interventions:
General Principles for Psychologists in Behaviour Modification:
Example Programs :
These interventions, grounded in psychology, not only modify behaviours but also foster a sense of pride and ownership among individuals, creating long-term societal change.
Good insight, pak.. eager to involve starting from myself maybe
Director at Stevland Bridge
1 个月Insightful writing Pak, many implementable ideas ??
Counselor & Clinical Psychologist, Founder of CHi-Psy
1 个月These are some great ideas...we should make them happen for better Indonesia and more civilized next generations.