PSYCHIC VAMPIRES
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June 2024 FUTURESCOPE
Excerpt from our book Psychic Intelligence:? ?
It’s not always possible to separate yourself entirely from every negative person in your life, but you can protect yourself from absorbing and being affected by the negativity of others. This is known as “psychic protection.” Have you ever dated someone and wondered why you felt totally depressed after the date? Do you notice that you are extremely tired when you are in the company of a particular family member, friend, or coworker? People who, intentionally or unintentionally, steal or “suck” the energy from positive people are generally known as “psychic vampires.” Other terms for this type of person include “energy vampire,” “energy predator,” and “energy parasite” because they leave you feeling exhausted, depressed, or just plain weird. (By the same token, of course, you can feel uplifted or energized by being in the vibration of a child or a happy person.)
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Twintuition Tip: Don’t be a psychic vacuum for other people’s negativity.
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Sensitive people subconsciously want to transmute or heal the negativity of others who are in pain or who are suffering emotionally. This is certainly an empathic impulse but it can lead to unhealthy codependencies, and it’s almost always the one who is taking on the pain of the other who ultimately pays the price. So tune in to how you feel when you spend time with the various people in your life, and how you feel afterward. Take your emotional temperature. Do you feel tense, anxious, drained, or dispirited? Do you have a friend who calls only to download her problems on you? Some people are addicted to complaining and never take your advice anyway. Is your significant other passive-aggressive or covertly hostile? A covertly hostile person is called a “suppressive.” You may find that you feel very tired or become more accident-prone when you’re around the energy of a suppressive person.
These people are often unaware of the negative effects they have on others. It may help to have an honest conversation with the negative person about how his or her behavior makes you feel. Own your feelings so that you are not blaming, just sharing. For example, instead of “You’re always criticizing me” say: “When you are critical of me, it makes me feel that you don’t respect me.” Then ask the person for what you need from him or her. Say: “What I would like from you is to have your support in my new_______ (project, relationship, path of study, etc.)” ?Enroll this person in supporting you by being honest about what you need. Not only will you feel dramatically better, but you’ll notice that your intuition will start to kick into high gear!
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Sometimes, however, there will be a toxic or negative person in your life who is unwilling or unable to change. What you need to do then is disconnect from that person, or—if that isn’t possible (because he or she is a close relative, a boss, or a coworker)—at least try to limit your exposure to his or her negative energy. Our friend Larry wears a T-shirt that says sarcastically, “Let me just drop everything and focus on your problem.” There are plenty of people out there who think we should do just that. They can be very demanding, and we need to set boundaries with everyone in our life and be very clear about what we are willing to do, how much time and energy we give to each person. Firmly state, “I can’t do that” or “I just have too much on my plate, I’m sorry.” It may take some practice, but we need to remain centered and focused so that we don’t absorb or pick up on other people’s neediness and negativity.
Too many of us don’t know who we really are, and in our quest for approval we are easily swayed by the demands and expectations of others. Try to keep your thoughts positive and peaceful when you are around toxic people. Don’t let another person make you feel bad. If you are empathic, you may be a virtual sponge, absorbing the feelings, worry, and anger of other people. Remember, you are the only one in control of your emotions because you are the only one who can decide to react or not to react. Take a moment to step back and look at things from another perspective. Try your best to understand where the negative person is coming from. Most often it is a place of hurt and anger that probably has absolutely nothing to do with you.
Be sure to read our next Futurescope coming in July which will give more helpful advice on how to protect yourself from psychic vampires.
Stay safe... and we’ll see you in the future…
Terry and Linda
The Psychic Twins
www.psychictwins.com
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4 个月Great advice!