PROVE EVERYONE WRONG
Jignesh Shetty
Transforming Talent | Strategic HRBP | Strengthening Employee Relations | Leading Stakeholder Management
When everybody is against you or don’t believe in you no more. It’s a lonely feeling. Oh, it hurts very badly. I know what that’s like. They look at you with that look and say why don’t you try something else? Why don’t you give up? Get away from these people that’s in your life that ain’t doing nothing. Get away from people in your life that’s hating. Get away from them. Get Away From Them.
If you take an oak tree seed and you put it in a 2- Foot pot that seed will never become the Oak tree, that oak tree are capable of becoming because it’s gonna get stifled by the 2-foot pot. Now check this out. There is nothing wrong with sed. They seed just fell prey to the environment. Don’t let your environment to dictate the oak tree that you become. Anytime you move from being normal to trying t be exceptional people aren’t gonna like that shit. Those normal people make them feel like shit so they are going to judge you. And that’s why every true leader they’re called weird. They’re called eccentric.
When you do things for real leadership, you’re going to be called strange. Get strong enough in your own skin that when people laugh at you or when they throw stones at you, you keep on going. I respect anyone that wakes up everyday and work their ass off to live their lifestyle. Leave clubbing, partying, hanging out that ain’t for me. I’mma be out here running in the hot sun practicing. Wen everybody is clubbing and hanging out you got your focus right.
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Don’t expect people to understand you. Don’t expect it to make sense to anybody why you’ve got to do this why you have got to go. “Why you are leaving?” “This is a good job.” I am going. “They pay you well” I am going. “Why? I don’t understand” you don’t have to. I’m going for me. This is something I have got to do. “How are you going to make it?” I don’t know but I will. The universe responds to the man or woman those refuses to be denied. Because that is your commitment.
That business that you want that book you want to write that dream that you have of controlling your destiny that is yours. That’s Available to you. But you’ve got to be willing to stand there and face the disappointment not have support be lonely doubt yourself sometimes be rejected again and again and again become bankrupt, if necessary, again and again and again and refuse to turn around until life gives it up. Life will always be to a large extent what you make it. Not what circumstances make of it. Not what other people make of it. Not what other people say it will be. Not what environment will try and dictate you but what you make of your life.
So, when you are uncommon get ready for criticism. When you are uncommon get ready for the opposition. When you are uncommon get ready for common people not to under stand you. If I decided to experience the fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of standing by myself, the fear of people not liking me what else is available of taking a chance fear of losing it all what else is available for me? People are gonna think you’re crazy. You have nothing but linen in the corner of your pockets you are here talking about living your dreams. And people laughing at you. And they’re doubting you. It takes guts but let me tell you, I believe in revenge like Frank Sinatra, he said the best revenge is massive success. Instead of killing them with kindness torture them with massive success.
Technical Consultant | Industrial and Process Engineering
2 年Jignesh Shetty , I totally agree from the core of my ??and thank you for this post???