Professional Destiny: The Journey from Self-Talk to Professional Glory and Vice Versa

Professional Destiny: The Journey from Self-Talk to Professional Glory and Vice Versa

We must mind our words these become our actions, mind our actions these become our habits, mind our habits these become our destiny.

By,

Mehboob Ahmad

Sr. Regional Manager Martin Dow Marker.

Ph.D. MGT (Marketing), MS-Marketing, MBA-Marketing, B. Sc. (Zoology)., AKU-MERCK-ABMTC, OSHA Certified

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Martin Dow Group being the employer of first choice and an equal opportunity employer arranged a training session under the banner of “Kar Har Maidan Fateh”. Participation in this session sparked a vibe "How could one become victorious in every avenue of professional life? Definitely by acquiring the required attributes. The author intended to go through the contemporary literature regarding habit development and the ways and means to change undesired habits because our habits determine our professional destiny. Sometimes meeting colleagues who blame their peers and seniors for their professional failures seems strange. Why so? Who stops us from the journey towards success?? The answer is very simple, our own self. In this article, we will go through the process of habit development and the methods we can mould them towards our successful voyage. ?

Habit development is a process that involves creating routines or behaviours that become automatic and ingrained in our daily life. Here are the general steps involved in developing a habit. The habit development process starts with self-talk. What is self-talk? Self-talk is?the way you talk to ourselves, or our inner voice. You might not be aware that you're doing it, but you almost certainly are. This inner voice combines conscious thoughts with inbuilt beliefs and biases to create an internal monologue throughout the day. This monologue is the single most strong determinant of our dialogue so if our self-talk is mot mentored by some successful icon of the industry, it may lead to negativity.

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What defines our habits? Our goals, as these goals determine the reasons for wanting to develop the habit and set clear and achievable goals. why this habit is important to us, and how it will benefit our life remains the main inspiration for developing & and retaining this habit. Who defines our goals? Our family, friends, peers seniors and most importantly our influencers.

Moving on with the discussion, the contemporary literature on human psychology documents That our habits play a significant role in shaping our destiny and the course of our lives. Here's how they can influence our future. How these habits influence our destiny will be discussed in the later part of this article.

Habits are formed through consistent actions or behaviours. When we repeatedly engage in a specific habit, it becomes ingrained in our daily routine and influences the direction our life takes. For example, if you consistently practice healthy habits like regular exercise, it can lead to a healthier, more active lifestyle. This applies to both positive and negative habits. Positive habits, like saving money regularly, can lead to financial security and wealth accumulation, while negative habits, such as smoking, can lead to health problems.

?Habits often contribute to our self-image and identity. If we consistently engage in habits that align with our desired self-concept, it can boost our self-esteem and help us reach our goals. Conversely, negative habits can erode self-confidence and hinder personal development.

Habits often influence our decision-making processes. When a habit is deeply ingrained, it can become the default choice in a given situation. For instance, if we have a habit of seeking out new learning opportunities, we'll be more inclined to choose educational options when faced with decisions about how to spend our time. Habits can enhance or hinder our productivity and efficiency. Productive habits, such as time management and setting clear priorities, can lead to more efficient use of our time and ultimately impact our career and success.

So, the habits of those around us can also shape our destiny. Social circles often share common habits and values. Being part of a group with positive habits, like a supportive and motivated network, can encourage you to adopt similar habits and drive you toward shared goals. Habits of adaptability and resilience can help shape our destiny in a rapidly changing world. People who develop the habit of learning, adaptability, and resilience are better prepared to face unexpected challenges and change the trajectory of their lives in response to new circumstances.

In conclusion, our habits define our destiny by shaping our character, influencing our daily choices, and either propelling us toward success or holding us back. It's crucial to recognize the power of habits in our lives and consciously cultivate positive ones while working to break free from detrimental ones to steer our destiny in the direction we desire.

?Can we change any habit that’s hindering our progression? Yes sure. How? Make a decision to do so. Why do most of the people fail to transform their habits? Simply they don’t change their influencers and environment. For changing a habit Start Small i.e. break down the habit into smaller, manageable steps. Create a cue and be consistent because Consistency is key to habit development. Make a habit of time-bound tracking and keep yourself accountable. Stay determined to overcome obstacles with patience and persistence because habit development takes time. It is often said that it takes about 21 to 66 days for a new behaviour to become a habit.

Remember that not all habits are easy to develop, and some may require more time and effort than others. The key is to stay focused on our goals, be consistent, and maintain a positive attitude. Over time, the habits we work on can become an integral part of our lives.

So, instead of complaining about your professional lagging behind and blaming others, change your habits and change your destiny. Start it now.