Problems are part of life, face them bravely

At first you have to analyse the situation and act accordingly. If you have strength, energy, resources and knowledge to face that situation then don’t wait and bravely face them. But sometimes we don’t have any option other then run away from sometimes…Shri Krishna had to leave the battlefield, due to which he was named Ranchod…Now since Shri Krishna knew that he cannot kill Kalayavan with his own force, nor can his Sudarshan Chakra spoil him.

Therefore, he left the battlefield and fled and reached a dark cave where the son of Ikshvaku King Mandhata and King Muchakund of South Kosala was sleeping deeply. Actually, he had won the gods by fighting with the Asuras. He was tired due to war for several consecutive days, so Lord Indra urged him to sleep and also gave him a boon, according to which anyone who wakes them from sleep will be consumed by burning. That’s called acting smartly. I am not saying running for all time or accept the defeat. But, yes run away just for some time and then hit again with all force and strength. Real bravery is knowing where, when and how you can win.

Well, it depends on the problem either it is professional or personal. I am good at solving all work problems. when it comes to work on personal stuff, there are many issues play so try to pay no heed until it is necessary to be verbal my emotions. you cannot find all solutions to all problems in personal stuff. I prefer to be quiet and dumb if after adhering to the cobweb of love for three long years, your lover ditches you. All your dreams shatter into a million micro pieces. All the chambers of your heart filled with trust and wants suffer a sudden demise. And you are broken like you had never been. Can you run away from this problem ?

No. Embrace the blow, cry your heart out, learn to get up from the pit, stand strong and start afresh. Life is hard and so are the problems. When you try to run away from a problem, the problem runs behind you. And it tries to strangle you. Be a man of steel not a piece of cotton. If the problem tries to kill you, kill the problem with a solution! You cant solve the problems on the same level you created them- Einstein. The solution is not to find out, keep on analysing and obsessing over problems you have rather focus on solution.

Avoiding problem won't work , as it will come back sooner or later … don't face the problem too just invest your time energy and resources into the solution rather than problem. For example if your are poor it you should not waste your time in analysing why was I born I. Poor family, why am I poor etc. Your only aim is to how do I become rich, it will automatically solve your problem of poverty. Similarly if you are unhealthy you aim should be to find out how to become healthy rather than finding out why you are unhealthy. Invest your mental and physical resources in solution rather than the problem.

Both these options are available to you when it comes to problems. Problems are sometimes legit and sometimes it's our mind that makes us believe that a particular problem is big. Now coming back to your question, I must suggest that you should first examine the whole scenario of the problem that you are currently in. If you think your problem is solvable, then you must face it and overcome it. Running away from problems will never be fruitful. But delaying it is still a possibility. Take your time and try to find a solution to your problems.

I do both, I do run away from the problems and I also face problems. We don't have to fight every problem put forth or faced with. Fighting needs a lot of energy and resources. Choose to dispense them wisely. Don't fight for the problems which will give u only a temporary happiness or pleasure. Don't fight of your opponent is too heavy to handle, then make alliances with ppl and face the problem only if it's necessary. Don't fight big wars for a personal gain. There will be no victory at the end. Don't fight just because your ego is hurt or to prove a point. Choosing the fight takes a lot of time but it will save us a lot. Cheers!