The Problem with Not Being Clear about Our Values
Gregg Vanourek
Personal development & leadership excellence. Helping you craft your life & work. Co-author, LIFE Entrepreneurs & Triple Crown Leadership. Author, TEDx public speaker. New book in the works on the traps of living.
Our values are what’s most important to us. What we believe and stand for. Our convictions about what’s most important in life.
“Your core values are the deeply held beliefs that authentically describe your soul.”
-John C. Maxwell
Many of us get into trouble when we start living and leading in ways that conflict with our values. First, we must know what our core values are.
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The Costs of Lacking Clarity on Our Values
Lacking clarity about our core values can get us into trouble in many areas.
For example, lacking clarity about our core values makes it harder to:
“Perhaps the most significant thing a person can know about himself
is to understand his own system of values.
Almost every thing we do is a reflection
of our own personal value system.”
-Jacques Fresco
Lacking clarity about our values reduces or weakens our:
It also makes it easier for:
Lacking clarity about our values makes it less likely that we’ll:
Finally, it makes it more likely that we’ll:
The Benefits of Knowing Our Values
Naturally, there’s a flipside to all the costs listed above. There are many powerful benefits that come from knowing our values.
A big one is that our core values, along with our?purpose, can serve as a sort of safe harbor in our lives—a place to return to amidst the storms and chaos.
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“A highly developed values system is like a compass.
It serves as a guide to point you in
the right direction when you are lost.”
-Idowu Koyenika
Our values can help us continue living in integrity even when times are tough, providing an important source of comfort and solace.
Our core values can also serve as a catalyst of motivation, keeping us inspired and moving forward in a state of empowerment. They can point us toward an exciting vision that resonates with who we are and what we want at the core.
Finally, according to?University of Pennsylvania researchers, encouraging new workers to express their personal values at work was linked to them significantly outperforming peers, being more satisfied at work, and higher retention.
The benefits are truly compelling.
(For guidance on how to discover your values, see my related article, “How to Discover Your Core Values.”)
Conclusion
Discovering our core values and living by them can improve all dimensions of our life and work.
The key, of course, is not just knowing our core values or writing them down.
The key is?living them—building them into the fabric of our lives. Using them to guide our decisions, actions, priorities, and allocation of time and energy—and as a guide to crafting a good life.
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Gregg Vanourek?is a writer, teacher, TEDx speaker, and coach on leadership and personal development. He is co-author of three books, including?LIFE Entrepreneurs: Ordinary People Creating Extraordinary Lives?(a manifesto for integrating our life and work with purpose, passion, and contribution) and?Triple Crown Leadership: Building Excellent, Ethical, and Enduring Organizations?(a winner of the International Book Awards). Check out his?Best Articles?or get his?monthly newsletter. If you found value in this article, please forward it to a friend. Every little bit helps!
(This article originally appeared on Gregg Vanourek's blog.)
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2 年Thanks for sharing. Clarity and living your core values is so essential to building a successful team or organization!
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2 年This is so on point, Gregg! I was just interviewing someone for the podcast yesterday and she talked about how we often get so "busy" that we don't make the time to get to know ourselves -- and our values -- first. This leads to so many problems for us.