Prioritize Yourself: The Key to Professional Fulfillment ??
Mykyta Bardan
FPSO Cargo Supervisor | HSEQ Advisor | NEBOSH IGC | FPSO & HSSE Specialist | Chief Officer | Commissioning, Pre-Operation, Operation and Start-up
In the bustling world of Offshore and Oil and Gas, professionals often find themselves at the crossroads of personal sacrifice and professional growth. Through my mentoring sessions, I've observed a recurring theme: many professionals, regardless of their position or pay, consistently underestimate and undersell themselves, often prioritizing the needs of their loved ones over their own. ?????
It's a noble sentiment, but it's also a precarious trap. Over time, this pattern can erode one's motivation, leading to feelings of resentment and unfairness, even when everything seems to be going well on the surface. ??
Consider this: Have you ever gifted a brand-new iPhone ?? to a loved one, only to continue using their hand-me-downs, convincing yourself it's "good enough"? Or perhaps you've cut corners on your own continuous education or certification to allocate funds elsewhere, later justifying it as "the right thing to do"?
Here's the hard truth: This approach is fundamentally flawed. And here's why:
Investing in Yourself is Investing in Your Future ??
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It's time for a paradigm shift. Start asking yourself if the choices you're making align with your personal and professional goals or if they're merely to appease others. It might seem counterintuitive, but there's a profound strength in prioritizing oneself.
By focusing on your own needs and aspirations, you're not just benefiting yourself. You're setting a precedent of happiness, independence, and maturity. And remember, maturity isn't just about age; it's about understanding, wisdom, and self-awareness.
By elevating yourself, you inspire those around you to rise to your level, fostering an environment of mutual growth and respect. ??
Embrace the Change ??
Change is simpler than you might think, and the benefits are more profound than you can imagine. So, as dawn breaks tomorrow, start with a plan. Write it down, commit to it, and watch as the transformative power of prioritizing yourself reshapes your life in ways you never thought possible. And if you need a help on this way, feel free to drop me a message and learn more about services I am providing.
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11 个月I agree,personal growth is the best thing a person has.
FPSO HSE Coordinator at SAIPEM SA (France)
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