The Principles That Shaped my Life: Could They Help You Achieve Lasting Success?

The Principles That Shaped my Life: Could They Help You Achieve Lasting Success?

Working with global corporations and observing various projects within large organizations provided invaluable opportunities to witness both exemplary leadership and well-executed initiatives. However, it was also possible to observe cases where organizational dynamics, such as the erosion of goals, balancing loops, and burden-shifting mechanisms, influenced less favorable outcomes. This contrast served as a source of reflection, offering deep insights into the systemic dynamics and complexities of organizational behavior. Over time, it became clear that understanding these patterns was essential for navigating not only professional challenges but also broader aspects of life.

Systems Thinking – The Foundation of Maturity

The systems we operate within—whether organizations, societies, or teams—are inherently complex. Peter Senge’s The Fifth Discipline introduced concepts that initially felt abstract to me but eventually became essential tools for navigating this complexity. Systems thinking is about recognizing the causal feedback loops that shape reality.

In practice, this means understanding that:

  • Causes and effects are often separated by time. Actions that seem to solve problems today can create significant issues years down the line.
  • Problems are often internal, not external. Many organizations attribute their struggles to "market conditions" or "external forces" instead of examining their internal structures.
  • Symptom-focused solutions lead to erosion. Burden-shifting—addressing surface-level symptoms instead of root causes—may yield short-term wins but inevitably results in long-term losses.

Goal Erosion vs. Quality Preservation

One of the most striking challenges I observed in certain projects was the phenomenon of goal erosion. Under market pressures, leadership turnover, or shareholder demands, long-term ambitions were often scaled down, deferred, or replaced by short-term targets. Contract managers, hired for two-year tenures, often pursued immediate wins that aligned with their personal objectives, without fully accounting for the long-term consequences of their decisions.

Yet, as a quality engineer, I refused to allow this erosion of goals to undermine the foundation of quality. Adhering to the principle of Right Quality, Right Time was essential for me. It ensured that the systems and products I worked on not only succeeded in the present but also endured far beyond the limitations imposed by organizational constraints. Quality, I believed, was the bedrock of trust—for customers, teams, and stakeholders alike. Losing it would mean losing everything that matters.

The Infinite Game and Structural Blind Spots

Simon Sinek’s concept of the "infinite game"—building organizations focused on long-term value rather than short-term wins—resonates deeply with me. In some projects, I observed how short-term strategies, driven by limited managerial tenures, prioritized immediate results at the expense of sustainability.

This dynamic resembles a domino effect: decisions that sacrifice investments in quality, culture, or systems development create ripple effects that only become apparent years later. Unfortunately, these delayed consequences are often misinterpreted as external failures—market downturns, bad timing—rather than the internal structural weaknesses they are.

Adopting systems thinking allowed me to see that these issues weren’t the result of chance or external forces but were embedded within the structures and feedback loops of the systems themselves. And what’s more, I realized that I had far more influence within these systems than I had previously believed.

Principles for the Second Half of Life

Through years of experience, reflection, and growth, I have developed a set of guiding principles. These principles are the foundation of my approach to both professional and personal life as I embark on the second half of my journey:

  1. Causes and effects are within the system. I don’t look for blame outside the system. The outcomes we experience are shaped by the structures and processes within the system, and change starts with understanding them.
  2. Eroded goals must not lead to eroded quality. Quality is the cornerstone of trust and longevity. Even when goals are compromised, I hold firmly to the standards that ensure systems and products can stand the test of time.
  3. Avoid the illusion of quick fixes. Burden-shifting to short-term solutions always leads to the same result—new, often bigger problems. I choose the harder, but more sustainable path.
  4. Think in long-term systems. Short-term gains are meaningless if they jeopardize the future. My focus is on systems that will thrive 10, 20, or even 50 years from now.
  5. Gratitude is a strength. Recognizing and appreciating people’s contributions builds a culture of trust and collaboration, which drives lasting success.
  6. Quality of life begins with quality decisions. The principles I apply at work—consistency, investment in excellence, and long-term thinking — are just as important in my personal life.
  7. Embrace mistakes as a source of learning. Reflecting on past missteps allows me to grow and improve. Mistakes aren’t failures; they’re part of the process of refinement.
  8. Invest in people—they are the system. Systems are shaped by the people within them. My priority is fostering teams that understand and embrace systems thinking.
  9. Continuous self-improvement. Every day presents an opportunity to grow. Reflection, learning, and openness to change are the keys to effectiveness—in work and life.
  10. Play the infinite game—look beyond the horizon. Everything I do today impacts the world tomorrow. I strive to act as if I’m part of a system that will endure beyond my own lifetime.

Conclusion – The Journey to Maturity

These principles are my compass for the second half of life. They are the culmination of lessons learned through observation, experience, and reflection. I’ve come to understand that quality—whether in work or in relationships—is a conscious choice that requires commitment, even in the face of adversity.

By embracing systems thinking, I’ve been able to see beyond the immediate and recognize the interconnectedness of causes and effects. It’s this perspective that has allowed me to grow as a professional and as a person. I am now better equipped to navigate the complexities of life and work, with a clear vision of the impact I want to make, today and in the years to come.

Kolja Sch?nfeld

Transformation mit System & Pragmatismus – Weil echte Ver?nderung kein PowerPoint-Projekt ist.

2 个月

Your reflection on systems thinking and sustainable leadership deeply resonates with my experience in transformation consulting. The pattern you describe - where short-term pressures erode long-term goals - is exactly what motivated me to develop an integrated approach to organizational change. What I've learned from guiding dozens of transformation projects: Sustainable change only happens when we address both the visible structures (processes, KPIs) and the invisible dynamics (culture, mindsets, relationships). It's why I combine systemic organizational development with pragmatic management tools. One principle particularly stood out to me: "Causes and effects are within the system." In my practice, this insight has been transformative. When organizations struggle with change, the solution rarely lies in new tools or frameworks - it's usually found in understanding and reshaping the system's internal dynamics. What's your experience with balancing systemic understanding and practical implementation in transformation processes? #SystemicTransformation #OrganizationalDevelopment #SustainableChange

Rtn. Deepak Kumar

Founder - Leadership Development SaaS Platform "GOALS N U", Investor, PHD Chamber of Commerce and Industry, Design Thinking Master Practitioner, Director on Board, Indian Society of NLP, Six Sigma Black Belt, ACC

2 个月

Reflecting on leadership principles is vital; they shape success in unexpected ways, much like guiding teams in innovation. What's one principle you're exploring now? ?? #Leadership #Success

Hey Rafal, I definitely know how much work there is behind this thought process and its conclusions so I first would like to recognize the effort. Well done. Next, as you know I do agree 100% with these points with one comment: most of them are relevant only to people who care about longevity of solutions and systems, to others they do not mean anything or at least are not their top priorities. So one question is if it is possible to find a system where those principles are applied or if it will be a question of balance as usual so far? In any case the 2nd part of the journey will be very interesting and I am really curious to see the next set of conclusions ?? Wishing you all the best in the execution !

Nicely worded. Every experience enriches us and is an opportunity for further growth, no matter which area - professional or personal - we consider. Thanks for insights.

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