PRESIDENTIAL GROWTH: Lessons from a President's Mother about High Standards
Dr. Chris Hobbs
Head of School at Indian Rocks Christian School ? ‘24 Colson Fellow ? ‘23 Baylor Center for School Leadership Fellow ? ‘19 BSN Sports Natn’l HS AD of the Year ? Insights on life, leadership, & learning
Parents, educators, and coaches play a crucial role in shaping young minds. In letters to her son John Quincy Adams—who later became the 6th U.S. president—Abigail Adams shared timeless wisdom that still applies today. Read these two short letters and reflect on four key lessons about high standards for young people.
Embrace Challenges ???The habits of a vigorous mind are formed in contending with difficulties. Struggles arent setbacks—theyre growth opportunities. Encourage students to face challenges head-on, knowing that perseverance builds strength
Expect Growth Through Trials ??"Great necessities call out great virtues." Difficult seasons shape character. Set the expectation that challenges will develop resilience, wisdom, and strength.
Cultivate Gratitude ???? "Reflect that you have had greater opportunities..." Gratitude helps students recognize and maximize their opportunities. Without it, they may overlook the advantages they already have.
Take Responsibility ??"How unpardonable would it have been in you to have turned out a blockhead." Growth is a personal responsibility. Students must take ownership of their learning and choices—success isnt given; its earned.
FINAL ENCOURAGEMENT: Prepare students for challenges, set high expectations, foster gratitude, and encourage responsibility. These lessons will shape them into strong, capable individuals.
Keep on, keepin' on, friends!