Be a preferred choice not an option

"If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice" I would like to say why would you want to be in that circle where you are treated like an option, if you could avoid these kind of people around."If you feel that you are avoided by someone, never disturb them again by your choice and not their"

It is a play on the words I know, option and choice. This quote means, that if people don’t consider you their priority and only use you as an option, then don’t be around them. Because you will be used to their advantage. Like if someone is avoiding you which obviously means intentionally, please do not go back to them, because they’ll consider you a nuisance. For e.g. if a girl is avoiding you intentionally, and you persist in talking to her, she is not to feel good about it. In fact it will speak bad about you. “I’m intentionally avoiding this man, but still he is behind me, doesn't the stupid guy understand?”

Why you want attention of this kind of people, who avoid you and you feel that you are disturbing them, I understand you may feel badly hurt and it may gives you pain only and nothing else in return. You are not a priority. The characteristics of an option is that you are among other options other choices/priorities and so when people, or how I am actually imagining it a girl treats you like this as an option only, you should leave her like a choice.

The characteristic of “a choice” emphasised hear, in my opinion, is decision. In the word option, its more on the things you choosing from, whereas choice is the decision you make yourself. You find that when someone is ignoring you then you should stop approaching him/her. Getting ignored simply means that person don't care about you how good or bad you are. So we should stop approaching them because we do not exist for them.

Say when a particular person reaches out to you only when needed. But other times that person does not remember you. Then you are clearly being treated as an option. You are used only when needed by them. If you try to reach out to a particular person. But that person ignores you. You message that person but don't get reply for days. The person tries to avoid you in public. Then simply don't go after such people.

Understand well that when people avoid you and don't even call you for a meeting of friends or to a party it is obvious that they don't like you to be there with them and it indirectly says you should never disturb them even in future they might want to be disturbed therefore have some self esteem and self respect and don't exhibit this kind of low level attitude. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre