POWERFUL STEPS TO WIN
Pamela DeNeuve
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RAISING OUR HANDS
Yet to be human is to make mistakes.
Many of us are baffled and don't understand why we may repeat the same mistakes again and again.
STOP BEING SO HARD ON YOURSELVES
? Lawyers can be unnecessarily too hard on themselves.
? Being harsh or a perfectionist will result in your being frozen or paralyzed, and nothing gets accomplished.
? Here are five things that can help you gauge whether or not you are repeating behaviors that are not in your best interest.
Five Steps to Help You Avoid self-sabotaging behaviors?
? Step No. 1:??
Avoid?
People and situations that cause you to stay upset or angry or who influence you to spiral out of control.
? Instead:?
Be around encouraging and supportive people who empower you to be your best self.
? Step No. 2:?
Avoid
Playing it safe, remaining stagnant, and always staying within your comfort zone.
? Instead:
Seek growth, challenge yourself, and be open to change. One consistent thing in life is "change."
? Step No 3:?
Avoid
Setting goals that are really low or even worse, not setting goals at all, or remaining stagnant or stuck.
? Instead
Set goals that inspire you to seek new horizons that inspire and make you feel alive. Set yourself up with a support system so you can win.
? Step No. 4
Avoid?
Creating tension and conflict with spouses, romantic partners loved ones, friends, or coworkers. Dial down your criticism or demands.
? Instead
Go the extra mile to make your loved ones feel valued and important in. your life. Emphasize what they do right instead of what they do wrong.
? Step No. 5:?
Avoid
Trying to control others.?
? Instead
Lead by example instead of nitpicking, empower, and encourage them to be great.
Remember, we can always change and grow no matter how old we are.?
WHENEVER YOU MAKE A MISTAKE
1??. Forgive yourself
2??. Be honest with yourself about where you went wrong
3?? Get good support to help you avoid making the same mistake again
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2 年These are 5 powerful tips to help avoid self-sabotage Pamela DeNeuve, thank. you for sharing. This one stands out to me: Avoid Playing it safe, remaining stagnant, and always staying within your comfort zone. ??Instead: Seek growth, challenge yourself, and be open to change. One consistent thing in life is "change." Is there one you see your clients struggle with more than others?
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2 年It’s important to remember that when you’re dealing with something like self-sabotaging behaviors, you have to forgive yourself. That’s easier said than done, but it’s crucial to your journey toward being the best version of yourself. Thank you for sharing, Pamela DeNeuve!
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2 年Thanks for sharing Pamela DeNeuve! Habits are often overlooked because we do them every day but, when we add up the time spent doing these habits on a daily basis it's quite significant.? This is why it's so important to form good habits and work towards changing the ones that don't serve our highest good.? I resonate with your 5 Steps especially, "seek growth, challenge yourself, and be open to change. One consistent thing in life is "change." Change is the only way we can reach new levels of abundance.
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2 年Terrific post Pamela DeNeuve! Step Number 5 really resonated for me: "Lead by example instead of nitpicking, empower, and encourage them to be great. Remember, we can always change and grow no matter how old we are." ?And "forgiving yourself" as you mentioned is so important. I'm still working on that. :)
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2 年To be successful we must learn to embrace our failures. Learn to see them as events, not destinations! If we ask the right questions, we can learn from them and gain clarity and direction!