The Power of No: Why Women Leaders Need to Protect Their Time

This is Part 1 of a 2-part boundary setting series for women.

By Kelly Charles-Collins, Esq.

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Food for Thought:

No is a complete sentence and answer. For some reason, especially as women, we are reluctant to say NO. It feels as if we are rejecting the person instead of the request. We sometimes feel a sense of guilt or like we are being selfish. Let go of those thoughts and feelings. You have the right to say NO and without having to offer an explanation.

Saying NO allows you to set boundaries for yourself and others. "You cannot be anything to anyone until you are everything to yourself." Saying NO is one of the easiest forms of self-care. Saying NO is empowering. Saying NO to others is saying YES to yourself. And as Samuel Butler says,

Self-preservation is the first law of nature.

So, jus say NO!

This food for thought is Kellyism #13 in my book Unapologetic AF: 34 Ways to Unleash Your Inner Badass.

The Power of Saying No: Why Women Leaders Need to Protect Their Time

Leadership demands are relentless, especially for women who often find themselves juggling professional responsibilities, personal obligations, and societal expectations.

For many women, saying no can feel uncomfortable or even guilt-inducing. But here's the truth: saying yes to every request dilutes your impact, drains your energy, and can ultimately harm both your leadership and personal life.

Women leaders must recognize that time is one of their most valuable resources. Protecting it starts with understanding that setting boundaries is not only acceptable but necessary.

Every time you say yes to something unaligned with your priorities, you’re saying no to something that matters more.

This can manifest in smaller ways—agreeing to unnecessary meetings, accepting extra work, or overcommitting to non-essential projects.

Saying no allows you to focus on high-impact areas that align with your goals and vision. It frees up mental space for strategic thinking, creativity, and self-care—qualities that enhance your leadership.

Moreover, saying no with clarity and confidence sets a powerful example for your team. It communicates that boundaries are essential for personal well-being and professional success.

The power of saying no lies in owning your decisions, protecting your time, and empowering yourself to lead effectively.

Implement This:

?? Audit Your Commitments: Look at your current obligations and identify at least one task, meeting, or project that doesn’t align with your priorities. Practice saying no to future similar commitments.

?? Set a Boundary Script: Prepare a clear, respectful way to say no that feels authentic to you. For example: “Thank you for considering me, but I’ll need to decline to stay focused on my current priorities.”

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About the Author Kelly Charles-Collins, Esq., MBA:

Kelly Charles-Collins , is a leading high-stakes communications expert and strategist who quips teams and women leaders, executives, and entrepreneurs with world-class skills to communicate with clarity, confidence and credibility. An acclaimed employment law trial attorney and award-winning TEDx speaker , her expertise, has been celebrated in media outlets like ABC, NBC, CBS, Forbes, and Fast Company, and she’s been recognized as a LinkedIn Top Public Speaking Voice and a 2-time Most Inclusive HR Influencer Award winner. Her books, including "Unapologetic AF " and "Convo Catalyst ," offer real-world and practical perspectives for growth and impact.