The Power of Visualization: Manifesting Both Good and Bad

Long before "manifesting" became a buzzword, we simply called it "visualization" - the practice of envisioning things into being. Over the years, I've experienced the remarkable power of this technique, both positively and negatively. My personal journey with visualization has taught me valuable lessons about the impact our thoughts can have on shaping our reality.

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One of my most striking experiences with visualization occurred during a personal development workshop. We were asked to envision ourselves five years into the future, considering every detail down to our outfit. In that moment, I saw myself on stage, speaking to an audience, wearing cream-colored slacks and a pea-green jacket. Fast forward five years, and there I was, reviewing a video of a speech I had given, stunned to realize I was wearing that exact outfit.

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Another powerful manifestation happened when I was living in North Carolina. I had a vivid vision of myself having dinner on a couch in New York City, eating off cobalt blue glass plates with a beautiful skyline view. At the time, I had no plans to move to NYC, let alone live there. Yet, years later, I found myself on the 28th floor of an apartment across from Lincoln Center, recreating that exact scene with my then-husband. It was a surreal moment that reinforced my belief in the power of visualization.

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However, not all visualizations manifest positively, as I learned through a cautionary experience with Katie Couric. For years, I had imagined being on her show, but in my vision, our interaction was competitive and challenging. In December 2005, I appeared on her show to discuss a plane shooting incident. Despite successfully completing about 60 interviews that night, my appearance on Katie's show was disastrous - exactly as I had envisioned it. This experience was a wake-up call, teaching me that our imagination can bring both good and bad things into our lives.

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This realization led me to understand the crucial importance of consciously practicing positive visualization. We need to ensure that our positive visions are stronger than our anxieties or stress. Whether it's envisioning success for our children, picturing ourselves delivering knockout speeches, imagining our bodies in great shape, or seeing our relationships as rewarding and fulfilling - the key is to focus on positive outcomes.

I love the quote by Nelson Mandela,

The power of imagination created the illusion that my vision went much farther than the naked eye could actually see.???

Mandela's words remind us of the incredible potential our minds hold. Our confidence, charisma, and overall life experience can transform through the simple yet powerful tool of creative imagination. By harnessing this power, we can shape our reality and bring our dreams to life.

Remember, our thoughts have power. By consciously directing our imagination toward positive outcomes, we can influence our future in remarkable ways. All it takes is closing your eyes and allowing yourself to dream - but make sure those dreams are filled with positivity and success!

I encourage you to start your visualization journey today. Take a few minutes each day to close your eyes and vividly imagine your ideal future. Picture the details, feel the emotions, and let your mind create a clear image of what you want to achieve. With consistent practice, you'll be amazed at what you can manifest in your life.

Quick tips for effective visualization:

1. Find a quiet, comfortable space
2. Focus on all five senses in your visualization
3. Practice regularly, preferably at the same time each day
4. Stay positive and believe in the possibility of your vision
5. Be patient and trust the process

As you embark on this journey of visualization, remember that you have the power to shape your reality. Your imagination is a powerful tool - use it wisely, dream big, and watch as your visualizations become your new reality.

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About Mary Gardner

A nationally recognized speaker and public speaking coach, Mary Gardner rose to prominence in the industry as an agent at Keppler Speakers. She then founded The Coaches Certification Institute in Princeton, New Jersey, the first business and life coaching and training school on the east coast. An avid communicator with a passion for helping others find their charismatic voice, Gardner has worked to raise the profile of many executives, celebrities, professional athletes and influencers, and transition them to new, lucrative careers in the motivational speaking circuit. In her role as the President of the Inspirational Speakers Academy, she has created a workshop series that fast tracks former professional football players into an exciting new career as professional motivational speakers.

Mary draws on her experience as a television and radio host, where she appeared on Nightline, The Today Show, CNN, ABC 20/20, CBS, Fox, and MSNBC. She has addressed corporate and college audiences across the country, and her client list includes Goldman Sachs, Mercedes Benz, Computer Associates and numerous Wall Street financial institutions. She also has experience as a professional spokesperson. In a coaching capacity, Gardner has worked with astronaut Mark Kelly, professional athletes Billie Jean King, Martina Navratilova, Peggy Fleming, Bernard King, Mike Hayes and Randy Grimes as well as TV anchors, CEOs, and executives who are respected experts in their fields.