The Power Of Selection !

I would like to spend my day in a library 

I would like to spend my day fishing 

I would like to take my dogs to a beech

I would like to buy a Red Mercedes

OR 

I don't want to work in Sales

I don't want to watch this movie

I don't want to eat chinese food

I don't want to work with that person 

Selection or Elimination ?

Did you notice something above ? The difference between power to chose and the power to eliminate. Both the above approaches work and both are needed at times but i believe eventually we must learn and achieve a point where we exercise the power to chose above the power to eliminate.Its eventually a state of mind where we increase our awareness about ourselves, our needs and the choices we want to make.

How do we get there ?

Before you know what is your choice you have to develop the experience of all choices around. Be open to

ideas, industries, thoughts, places, restaurants, drinks, jobs, profiles, books, newspapers and most important people. 

Example : We go to school. We play different sports and study different subjects for years.When we pass out we have a liking for one subject , one sport, one teacher, one hobby, one best friend and that is how it all starts. 

When we follow this in school why do we stop or slow down when we grow up. Because we develop Fear of failure which was absent when we were younger.We fear what if we make a wrong choice , what if ..

Basically be open to experiences which life want to give you.The more you experience the easier it becomes to make a selection later on in life. This is how all aspects of life work.  

Making a habit of doing things you want to do. Giving importance to your choices and nurturing them.

Grow to be the selection person rather than the elimination person !