Power of Please….In a Relationship !

The best gift you can give yourself is to stop comparing yourself today to your 20 year old self. You’ll never win if you do. Instead, learn to love everything about you as the awesome woman you are today.

You are only going to attract a man who loves you as much as you love yourself, so now’s the time to find out what makes you so special.

Start by making a list of all the things you love about you. If you can’t think of qualities you love, at least come up with things you are grateful for.

Re discover How To Flirt

Whether you are meeting men online or in the real world, flirting is the best way to get a man’s attention.

Online, you can flirt by favoring men. In real life, smile and make eye contact for at least five seconds. This lets a man know you’re interested in him and it’s safe to approach you.

Your Clothes In Your Closet

You don’t want to be scavenging through your closet with nothing to wear one hour before you’re supposed to meet a man for a coffee date.

Sales are happening right now on winter clothes. That means it’s the perfect time to find a couple of mix and match pieces that you can pull out of your closet at a moment’s notice to make you feel great.

Choose soft colors or styles that bring out the feminine side of you that men so love.

Date To Date

A man may not be your next mate, but he can be a great date.

Plus, he can make a great friend who might be perfect for that wedding or party you don’t want to attend alone. Who doesn’t want a Saturday night out where he buys the tickets and you pick up the popcorn?

Go on dates with men to meet someone new and interesting. At the same time, have fun enjoying male companionship while you’re still out there looking for Mr. Right.

Let him Hear your words

Did you ever wonder why men were stepping over themselves to help Scarlett O’Hara in Gone With The Wind?

Here’s a hint...Scarlett knew how to make a man feel both important and needed. In turn, men wanted nothing more than to make her happy.

Men can do the same for you.

Women have a tendency to ask men for help the same they would ask another woman for help. Women are fine hearing it this way but men hear it as demanding.

If you want a man to make you happy, consider using capturing attentive words, “I need your help please,” then watch how this changes how the men in your life respond to you.

If you’re like most women, you probably don’t realize exactly how men think. What might sound like a total no-no to you as a modern woman is just what men want to hear the most.

Let’s face it; most of us rely on the help and assistance of others throughout our day—at work, home, and out in the community. Sometimes we may not even realize how much we’re relying on others to accomplish what we need to get done. Every great leader will tell you that you can’t rise to the top without the help of others.

Saying please to everyone when asking for anything—regardless of whether or not it’s a person’s job or responsibility to help you—is a principle so important that I’m devoting today’s POST to helping you tap into the “Power of Please.”

At the most basic level, when we use the word please, it shows respect and consideration for the effort another person puts forth to help us. Including please with your request is not only a social norm but, if communicated with a genuine sense of appreciation, it’s a powerful way to establish rapport, build relationships, and develop your own character.

When we say please, people are more willing to fulfill our request or provide the help we need. As the adage goes, “You have to give respect to get respect.” When you are polite and say please, people are more likely to respect you in return. And, without a doubt, your consistent use of please (with everyone, all the time) is a little thing that will most definitely help you stand out in a crowd of busy people who are mindful only of their own time schedules and to-do lists.

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Thank you …Even for those of us who pride ourselves on impeccable manners and almost always say please, it bears noting that how we say it really does matter. When I say ‘subconscious please,’ I’m referring to the requests we put on autopilot.

My challenge to you today is this: never allow yourself to ask someone to do something for you without saying please. As you become more intentional about saying please, be conscious of how you say it.

 Does it sound like you mean it?

The key to every successful relationship is putting the other person’s needs ahead of your own. You can take a step towards stronger relationships every day with one simple, yet powerful word: please.

Little things don’t mean a lot. They mean everything.

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