The power of perception @ Conversations

Ever pondered why one person can leave you feeling drained but another can make your spirit sore. Why does a single conversation have the power to alter your mood? The answer lies not in the people themselves but in the experiences they provide.

Picture this: Meet X a charismatic and lively character he is a magnet for good vibes and his positive energy is infectious when you are around him you feel seen heard and appreciated. X’s conversations are like a breath of fresh air they leave you feeling uplifted and inspired. ?

Now imagine another person let's call him Y he's the kind of person who never seems content & always seeking to pick a hoax or spread negative conversations with others. Y often leave you feeling drained frustrated and unheard. ??

In both scenarios it's not X or Y who you love or loathe but the experiences they offer you are drawn to X because he creates positive experiences and you avoid Y because he fosters negative ones.

The same principle applies to conversations we don't despise talks. It is the experience we derived from them that can leave a sour taste. A discussion that invites open mindedness and empathy can leave you feeling enlightened, while a conversation filled with close mindedness and hostility can leave you feeling disheartened.

The key takeaway people in conversations are mere vessels; they deliver experiences that can either be enriching or draining. Its’ these experiences that shape our perceptions not the individuals or the talks themselves.

?So the next time you find yourself disliking someone dreading a conversation remember it's not the person or the talk itself, it is experience that leaves a mark.

The moment that experience changes so does our view. In essence, navigate towards those who cultivate positive experiences and conversations that foster growth because at the end of the day it’s not about who we interact with but how those interactions make us feel.

Good day ahead. Happy reading !!!