The Power of Now: How to Stop Putting Things Off and Start Living the Life You Want
Larry Mullne
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"The best way to get something done is to begin." —Unknown
Imagine standing at the bottom of a mountain of tasks. It’s towering, daunting, a little terrifying — and yet, you tell yourself, "I’ll start tomorrow." Then tomorrow comes, and somehow, that mountain seems to have grown even taller. Sound familiar? We’ve all been there, standing at the edge of possibility, stuck in the cycle of “later.” But here’s the truth: the mountain only shrinks when we decide to take the first step. So, let’s dive in. Not tomorrow, not “when the time is right.” Now.
The Real Reason We Put Things Off: Fear of Discomfort
Here’s the secret behind why we procrastinate: it’s not laziness, and it’s definitely not lack of ambition. It’s the feeling of overwhelm, the fear of discomfort, and the need for things to feel “just right” before we start. The result? We sit on the sidelines of our own lives, waiting for that mythical “perfect moment” to take action. But waiting doesn’t move mountains; action does. As Neil Fiore brilliantly puts it in The Now Habit (2007, p. 19), "Procrastination is a habit we develop to cope with anxiety about starting or completing tasks." So how do we break out of this cycle? By taking the first small, bold step forward.
Strategy #1: Bite-Sized Brilliance — Start Small to Build Big Wins
Let’s turn that mountain into a molehill. The key? Bite-sized actions. If the goal seems too big to handle, slice it down into a single, ridiculously easy step. Want to start a fitness routine? Just get up and stretch for two minutes. Thinking about writing that book? Jot down one sentence. The simplicity here is the power — when tasks are tiny, they become too easy to ignore. And once you take that first, small action, the momentum kicks in, helping you keep going. This approach, known as the “two-minute rule,” was popularized by David Allen in Getting Things Done (2001, p. 25), and it’s a game-changer. Big goals don’t require big actions to start; they just need a small spark to light the fire.
Strategy #2: The 10-Minute “Momentum Hack”
Ever told yourself, “I’ll get to it later,” only to realize that “later” never comes? Here’s a hack that can make “later” happen now: set a timer for ten minutes. That’s it. Just ten minutes. Tell yourself you’re only committed to working for that short burst. The magic? Often, by the time those ten minutes are up, you’re in the flow and don’t want to stop. If you do want to stop, that’s fine too — you’ve still made progress. Tim Urban of Wait But Why fame calls this tackling the “instant gratification monkey” in our brains. This quick burst of work quiets that “monkey” by giving it a tiny, satisfying win. Sometimes, all we need is a nudge to get moving.
Strategy #3: Self-Bribery — The Science of Rewarding Yourself
Here’s a bold truth: rewards work. Just as kids perk up at the promise of a treat, your brain lights up with the prospect of something enjoyable post-task. Positive reinforcement fuels progress, especially in the face of resistance. Promise yourself something fun — a coffee break, a few minutes of a favorite show, a walk outside — once you’ve checked off a small goal. Charles Duhigg writes in The Power of Habit (2012, p. 47) that “rewards are powerful because they satisfy cravings.” Every time you reward progress, you’re hardwiring your brain to associate action with pleasure, and suddenly, tackling your tasks doesn’t feel so tough.
Strategy #4: Future-You Visualization
Imagine this: you’re on the other side of that mountain, and it’s finally conquered. Feel that? The relief, the pride, the sense of accomplishment. Visualizing the completed task gives your brain a mental “taste” of success, which can be a powerful motivator. Dr. Maxwell Maltz, in Psycho-Cybernetics (1960, p. 68), argues that “your nervous system cannot tell the difference between an imagined experience and a real one.” By picturing yourself succeeding, you’re priming your brain to believe it’s possible, and when belief meets action, that mountain doesn’t seem so tall anymore.
Strategy #5: Flip Procrastination on Its Head — Make It Work for You
Ever hear of “structured procrastination”? It’s a twist on traditional procrastination that actually works in your favor. If you’re overwhelmed by a major task, start by tackling a smaller one — a warm-up, if you will. Let’s say you’re putting off writing a report. Instead, start by sorting your emails. Once you’re warmed up, it’s often easier to pivot into the main task because you’re already in “doing mode.” As John Perry explains in The Art of Procrastination (2012, p. 10), structured procrastination is about using the momentum from a lower-stakes task to propel yourself into tackling the bigger goal. It’s a powerful mind trick that turns procrastination into productivity.
Reflect and Rise: Embrace the Power of Tiny, Consistent Steps
Procrastination isn’t a failure or flaw; it’s a signal. It’s our brain’s way of saying, “I need a more manageable approach.” And guess what? You don’t have to wait for a major breakthrough to move forward. Start small. Celebrate every tiny victory. Visualize success. Procrastination might always lurk in the background, but with these strategies, it loses its power over you.
So, next time you’re tempted to wait for “later,” remember that now is where action happens. Take that small step, reward yourself, and watch as the path forward becomes clearer, lighter, and more exciting. With each tiny action, you’re proving to yourself that you’re not just capable — you’re unstoppable. The time to climb that mountain isn’t tomorrow, next week, or someday. The time is now. And step by step, you’re already on your way
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