The Power of a Letter to your Child: Inspired by George Kittle’s Heartwarming Tradition

In an age dominated by instant messaging and social media, the simple act of writing a letter has become a rarity. Yet, sometimes, it’s the oldest forms of communication that carry the most profound impact. I recently stumbled upon a heartwarming story about NFL star George Kittle and his father, Craig. In the Netflix series Receiver George shares how his father, Craig writes a letter to his son, filled with encouragement, wisdom, and love. This tradition not only strengthens their bond but also serves as a source of inspiration for George on the field.

If you haven’t seen Receiever, George is a really unique personality and his unique and very positive view on life (and football) is evident every time he speaks. He’s so positive it’s absolutely infectious.?

This story resonated deeply with me, especially as my own son has just embarked on his university journey. The transition to college is a significant milestone, filled with excitement and uncertainty. Inspired by Craig Kittle’s gesture, I’ve decided to start writing letters to my son. While texts and calls are frequent, a handwritten letter feels more personal and enduring?—?a tangible piece of home he can hold onto during this new chapter of his life.?

Especially since time with him is limited, I feel like these letters have a chance of reminding him how amazing I think he is.

Why Letters Matter

Letters offer a unique opportunity to express thoughts and emotions that might not surface in everyday conversations. They allow us to pause and reflect, to choose our words carefully, and to convey sentiments that are sometimes difficult to articulate aloud. For our children, these letters become keepsakes, cherished reminders of our love and support as they navigate the complexities of adulthood.

Starting the Tradition

If you’re considering starting this tradition, here are a few ideas I’ve included to try and make them more meaningful:

1. Be Authentic: Write from the heart. I’m sharing my feelings openly, whether it’s pride or excitement for his future. I am focusing on the positive.
2. Offer Encouragement: College life can be challenging. Words of encouragement can provide comfort during stressful times. I don’t try to focus on advice?—?but more leaning into the fact that he can do it and that I believe in him. If he feels confident and accepted I know he’ll reach out.
3. Share Wisdom: Reflect on my own experiences. Lessons I’ve learned can offer valuable insights. I try to share memories or experiences that we may have shared over the week (or in the past) that may be relevant to what’s happening now in his life. Focus on the “high level” experience. If he wants to draw a lesson from them, he will.
4. Simple Finish: I am keeping it simple. Finsh with I love you and the ever famous Mr Rogers line, “I love you just the way you are.” My goal here is have him feel confident.

The Lasting Impact

Craig Kittle’s letters have become an integral part of George’s routine, a source of motivation that goes beyond the football field. Similarly, our letters can have a lasting impact on our children’s lives. They serve as a reminder that no matter where they are or what challenges they face, they have our unwavering support.

In embracing this tradition, we’re not just sending words on a page; we’re sending a piece of ourselves. And in a world that moves faster every day, taking the time to write a letter might just be the most impactful way to stay connected.

Final Thoughts

As my son settles into university life, I look forward to the moments he’ll read my letters?—?perhaps between classes or during a quiet evening in his room. I hope they bring a smile to his face, provide comfort when needed, and remind him of how much we love him. And who knows? Maybe one day, he’ll pass on this tradition to his own children.

I look forward to starting this tradition for my other kids when they start their post-secondary school journeys.

What do you think? Anything I’m missing from this tradition that I can use to make it even more meaningful?