The Power of Gratitude: Giving Thanks Daily
Scott Baradell
CEO of Idea Grove and author of Trust Signals: Brand Building in a Post-Truth World
Everyone knows that gratitude is important, but why?
Gratitude can be hugely beneficial in your life. Grateful people are happier, less anxious, more hopeful, and see the positives in their lives. Several studies have found that people who practice gratitude regularly experience greater emotional well-being than those who don't. Let's explore why you should be practicing this habit daily.
The Power of Gratitude
Gratitude improves social relationships. It makes you more attuned to the other person's emotions, which helps build closer relationships. Gratitude also improves self-worth because it means that you recognize your strengths and talents. This can help build confidence and encourage people to set goals they may not have otherwise done.
Gratitude has been shown to lower stress levels. Studies have found this to be true even if the individual has recently experienced a stressful event or perceives their life as stressful overall. It is likely because gratitude encourages physical relaxation and decreases stress responses over time.
Use gratitude to cut out the bad things in your life. It is easy to dwell on what you don't have or what didn't go according to plan that day. This is not beneficial at all. Instead, look for the good things. Improve your overall well-being by making gratitude a daily habit.
How to Practice Gratitude Daily
You're probably thinking, "yeah yeah, I hear it all the time!" - but truly understanding why gratitude is important and making conscious efforts day-to-day to practice gratitude is the key to success.
Identify things you're grateful for in your life. There are hundreds of ways to do this. It might be as simple as looking up at the sky and breathing deeply before going back inside after work or saying thank you aloud when your food arrives at a restaurant. This does not have to take long either. Taking a couple of seconds throughout your day to reflect on what's good in your life can help improve your mood.
Put an objective perspective in bad situations. Most people who complain about their lives assume that they will never get better. Instead of doing this, try to look at the situation objectively. If you argue with your family, for example, explore what each person is feeling and thinking about what happened. This is a great way to diffuse the tension in the room by providing another perspective on things.
Focus on being grateful during difficult times. This is when people are most likely to lose focus of what they are grateful for because they feel overwhelmed or stressed by negative emotions. Try to remember that what you're experiencing will pass eventually, and everything else that's good in your life will continue as usual.
Be mindful throughout the day. Focus all of your attention on what you're doing at any given moment. This is a great way to stay motivated and keep yourself grounded. If you feel ungratefulness creeping up on you, try doing some breathing exercises or counting down from 10. Doing so can help center your mind and remind you of the good in your life.
What Are the Benefits of Practicing Gratitude Regularly?
Every day, you go through your life making thousands of decisions, and you can find yourself overwhelmed by the long to-do lists in front of you. Gratitude is a habit that promotes positivity, which has been proven to impact both your emotional and physical well-being. Everyone faces times when life gets hard, but having an attitude of gratitude brings you back into balance and allows you to see the positives in every situation.
Dozens of studies have shown that people who regularly practice gratitude experience greater emotional well-being than those who don't. People who practice gratitude are happier, less anxious, and more hopeful. They see the positives in their lives.
Gratitude is very closely related to optimism. Optimists are often grateful for what they have, which means that people who practice gratitude regularly also tend to be optimists. Optimism has been shown to reduce heart disease risk by up to 50 percent.
Days, weeks, or even months can go by where you don't stop to appreciate the things in your life. You get so caught up in daily activities that you forget to take a moment to show appreciation for what's happening right now. It's often said that you don't know what you've got until it's gone, but it takes just seconds to write down three positive things that happened today. Even if they are small moments, taking notice of these things allows you to focus on everything that is going well in your life.
You Should Be Grateful for Your Life and Everything in It
You might not feel like you have a lot to be grateful for, but even if it's as simple as having heat and shelter, there are plenty of things to appreciate. Everyone goes through hard times or experiences that they wish hadn't happened, but you can learn from them and grow stronger because of them - not despite them. Asking yourself what you're grateful for shows that you recognize kindness and compassion in other people and acknowledges all the good things you already have. It doesn't matter how small those moments are. They shape who you are and should always be recognized.
People with low incomes or those who are less fortunate than you can find happiness by practicing gratitude. Being thankful reminds you that life isn't about what you have. It's about who you became in the process.
Ways to Cultivate a Sense of Thankfulness Regularly
Write down a few things that went well each day. This is a great way to focus on the positive rather than getting caught up in negative emotions.
Start your day with thankfulness. When you wake up, take a few minutes to think about everything you're grateful for in life. This sets the tone of your day and makes it easier to embrace positivity throughout the rest of it.
Practice mindfulness throughout the day. Mindfulness encourages people to live in the moment. It reduces stress by focusing on what they're doing at any given time. This helps keep gratitude as part of your daily routine, as you will always be aware of those around you who make life worth living.
Remember that gratitude isn't just for "those other people." You might feel like you don't deserve to be thankful for anything, but that is part of the problem. Remind yourself that you are worthy of happiness and everything else in life, so there is no reason not to be grateful for it. Every day is filled with little things that could bring a smile to someone's face.
Tips for Cultivating Gratitude in Children and Teens
Practice thankfulness with your children. Ask them to think of three things they are grateful for before bed or after meals. Even if it's small, showing them that they should appreciate everything in their lives helps teach this mindset.
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Ask them to write down their blessings. Writing letters of appreciation has been shown to increase happiness levels, even if someone never receives it. This is an easy way to get kids excited about practicing gratitude from a young age, and the more they write, the better they will feel.
Teach children how helpful gratitude can be. Show them ways that being grateful helps you in all aspects of life. Let them know that writing down what they are thankful for can help them feel happier and see the positive things around them every day.
Make time for mommy-daughter or daddy-son gratitude sessions. You don't have to wait until your child is older to connect over thankfulness - start now. Teaching kids from a young age to appreciate themselves and others is an important part of raising emotionally healthy adults.
By teaching your children about gratitude, you create a positive mindset that helps them in the long run. It's never too early to start cultivating this sense of thankfulness and appreciation.
Challenges People May Face When Trying to Practice Gratitude
Gratitude is about recognizing what you do have, not focusing on what you don't. If you feel like everything in your life isn't perfect, that's okay - focus on the positive aspects and celebrate them.
A common fear when it comes to practicing gratitude is the idea of losing something good in your life. Many people are afraid that once they start being thankful for their blessings, they will lose them. This should never stop someone from living a full life filled with appreciation for all they do have.
Anxiety can play a significant role in keeping people from developing gratefulness. It may seem counterintuitive to practice thankfulness if you're constantly worrying about the future or feeling guilty over the past. However, it's still important to remember that being grateful is more helpful than harmful. Gratitude helps avoid getting caught up in these thoughts and shows you why you must give thanks.
People often feel guilty when they think about what they don't have or like in their lives or who isn't there. Instead, remember your gratitude list every day - even if it means writing down the same things at first. Eventually, you will start adding new elements of your life to appreciate. Unmet expectations are part of life and should not keep you from enjoying your current situation.
Resources That Can Help With Practicing Gratitude
Several helpful resources are available to guide you through practicing gratitude, especially if you're having a hard time maintaining a thankful mindset. Listening to uplifting songs, reading positive quotes, and meditating can help remind you of what you have and appreciate life more.
Music with lyrics that remind you of gratitude can help you shift your mindset, especially if they are written about the power of appreciation.
There are plenty of great quotes out there to print off and keep on hand or in your planner so you can see them every day. Since each quote only takes up a little bit of room, you can create a gratitude board with lots of positive words to inspire yourself throughout the day.
Meditation is another way for people to remember why they're grateful and start seeing everything around them as something good. There are many guided meditations available online or free apps that will help guide you through daily practice until it becomes second nature.
Examples of How to Give Thanks Daily
Writing down your thanks and reading them is one way of practicing gratitude. For example, each night before you go to bed, make a list of things you're grateful for on a post-it note and stick it somewhere you can readily see it throughout the day. Doing this consistently will help you stay focused on what's good and give more space in your mind for thankfulness than negativity. Whether it be a list or an ongoing mental note, writing is a great way to be grateful for what you have and acknowledge the good things in your life.
Use social media to spread more joy and share what inspires and interests you. This will help others see the good in their lives and show them how many wonderful people surround them who deserve appreciation. Posting about topics centered around being thankful will remind everyone of the beauty behind all the bad news, negative feelings, hateful thoughts, etc. Everyone should do their part to bring positivity into others' minds because it spreads like wildfire.
A seemingly silly practice that can help is expressing thanks for the food you eat. If you're eating a bag of chips, be grateful for the salt and crunch; if you're having a bowl of cereal, be thankful for the sweet milk and slight chewiness. This practice is so easy to do and will bring more gratitude into your life than you'd expect.
Give thanks on Thanksgiving or some other day throughout the year. When families come together over good food and one another, everyone should find quiet time to acknowledge all they have and enjoy their company fully. Save all the family drama and silly banter for after dinner. Everyone can relax and appreciate everything before them, instead of focusing on what could've been done better or who said what to whom.
Start a Gratitude Journal
Using a gratitude journal is a great way to track what you're thankful for each day. This helps you see the good more clearly and notice how much more wonderful and surprising your life is than first meets the eye. These journals come in all forms, from a notebook you can carry around with you to apps on your smartphone. There are several websites that will send prompts to your inbox each day, guiding you through new exercises and helping jog your memory about things you may have taken for granted.
Please don't focus on how much you have to write in your journal each day, or you'll end up overwhelmed and not want to do it at all. The point of this exercise is to be grateful for what you have, even if it's fewer than five things. Just because other people say they're thankful for six million different things doesn't mean their life is better or worse than yours. Everyone has something meaningful in their life that deserves love and appreciation.
Write something down every day. Whether that's a short sentence or paragraph, write something down at the end of each day. If you're like other people who say they don't have time to do this exercise every day, set aside half an hour before bedtime and write whatever comes to mind.
Conclusion
It's important to give thanks because being grateful can help improve emotional well-being. There are always things worth giving thanks for, no matter how small or insignificant they may seem. Writing down what you are thankful for each day will remind you of all the wonderful people who surround you and deserve appreciation.
Keeping track of your gratitude journal entries is also beneficial. You'll know where you need improvement and which areas should receive more attention within your life. Take consolation in knowing that everyone has something to be grateful for, no matter how bad things seem to be. Taking the time to think about what you're thankful for can make a huge difference in improving emotional well-being. It's a great way to share the love in your life with all the beautiful people who are important to you.