The Power of Connections: The Value of Your Network Determines Your Net Worth

Do you want to increase your income? Do you want to become more valuable? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then keep reading.

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I’ve studied successful people over the past 4 years, and one thing that remains common amongst all of them is the fact that they are all valuable. Not a single one of them doesn’t bring immense value to a segment of people.

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Now, with that being said, who is a person of value?

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A person of value is someone who has something that many people around them would consider necessary enough to enjoy. It could be your time, principles, knowledge, money, wisdom, ideas, concepts, relationships, material things, etc. A person of value is someone who can offer solutions, insights, opportunities, or resources to others.

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Being a person of value is not only good for your self-esteem and happiness but also for your network and net worth. Your network is the sum of all the people you know and interact with, and your net worth is the sum of all your assets minus your liabilities. Both of these are crucial for your success in life.

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Why? Because your network and net worth are indicative of your value in the marketplace. The more value you have, the more people will want to do business with you, refer you, partner with you, or mentor you. The more people you have in your network, the more opportunities you will have to sell, learn, grow, and achieve your goals. The more net worth you have, the more financial freedom and security you will have to pursue your dreams and passions.

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But how do you become a person of value? How do you increase your value in the eyes of others? How do you attract the right people to your network and grow your net worth? In this article, I will share with you three ways to do that.

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How to Increase Your Value Through Knowledge

One of the fastest and easiest ways to become a person of value is by increasing your knowledge. Knowledge is power, and it can help you solve problems, create value, and make a difference in the world. Knowledge can also help you communicate better, build rapport, and establish credibility with others.

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But how do you gain knowledge? It is not expensive or difficult to do so in today’s world. You have access to a wealth of information and resources at your fingertips. You can use the internet, books, podcasts, courses, seminars, mentors, and more to learn anything you want. You just need to have the curiosity, the hunger, and the discipline to do so.

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Here are some benefits of increasing your knowledge:

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• You will be able to offer more value to your customers by better understanding their needs, challenges, and goals and by providing them with the best solutions, products, or services.
• You will be able to add more value to your network by sharing useful information, insights, or resources with them and by helping them solve their problems or achieve their goals.
• You will be able to offer more value to yourself by improving your skills, abilities, and confidence and by expanding your horizons and opportunities.

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So, how much reading are you currently doing? It is said that the average CEO in the USA reads at least five books a month. Why do you think they do this? They do this primarily because they want to be more valuable to themselves, businesses, employees, the community, churches, etc.

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You should do the same. Read voraciously, listen to audiobooks, watch valuable podcasts, enroll in courses, find a mentor, attend networking conferences, and more. The more you learn, the more you earn.

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How to Leave Your Comfort Zone and Connect with Strangers

Another way to become a person of value is by leaving your comfort zone and connecting with strangers. Your comfort zone is the place where you feel safe, comfortable, and familiar. But it is also the place where you stagnate, limit, and isolate yourself. If you want to grow your network and net worth, you need to step out of your comfort zone and meet new people.

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Why? Because the people you want to have in your network are strangers to you. They are the people who have the connections, the influence, the success, or the resources that you want. They are the people who can help you get to the next level. They are the people who can open doors for you, teach you, inspire you, or challenge you.

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But how do you connect with them? How do you approach them, talk to them, and build relationships with them?

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Here are some tips on how to do that:

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• Have a list of the people you want to connect with and start finding ways to reach out to them. You can use social media, email, phone, or referrals to get in touch with them.
• Have a clear purpose and value proposition for contacting them. Don’t just ask for favors or pitch your products or services. Instead, offer them something of value, such as a compliment, a recommendation, a solution, a resource, or an opportunity.
• Have a genuine interest and curiosity in them. Don’t just talk about yourself or your agenda. Instead, ask them questions, listen to them, and learn from them. Show them that you care about them and their goals.
• Have a follow-up strategy and a long-term vision for building the relationship. Don’t just contact them once and forget about them. Instead, keep in touch with them, provide value to them, and look for ways to collaborate with them. Show them that you are reliable, trustworthy, and valuable.

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But what if they reject you? What if they ignore you, say no to you, or criticize you? Well, that’s part of the process. You can’t expect everyone to say yes to you or like you. You have to accept that rejection is inevitable and not take it personally. You have to focus on the process and not the outcome. You have to learn from your mistakes and improve your skills. You have to be persistent and resilient.

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How to Be Persistent and Overcome Rejection

The third way to become a person of value is by being persistent and overcoming rejection. Persistence is the ability to keep going despite obstacles, challenges, or failures. The act of rejection is when something or someone rejects, dismisses, or denies you. Both of these are essential for your success as a salesperson and a networker.

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Why? Because you will face a lot of rejection and resistance in your journey. You will encounter people who will say no to you, ignore you, or criticize you. You will encounter situations that will test your patience, courage, or faith. You will encounter failures that will make you doubt yourself, your abilities, or your goals.

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But how do you overcome rejection and keep going? How do you turn a no into a yes, a failure into a lesson, or a setback into a comeback?

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Here are some ways to do that:

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• Have a positive mindset and attitude. Don’t let rejection define you, discourage you, or stop you. Instead, see rejection as feedback, as an opportunity, or as a challenge. See rejection as a sign that you are trying, growing, and improving.
• Have a clear goal and a strong why. Don’t let rejection distract you, confuse you, or derail you. Instead, have a clear vision of what you want to achieve and why you want to achieve it. Have a compelling reason that motivates you, inspires you, and drives you.
• Have a plan and a system. Don’t let rejection overwhelm you, paralyze you, or exhaust you. Instead, have a plan of action and a system of execution. Have a strategy that guides you, a routine that supports you, and a habit that sustains you.
• Have a support network and a mentor. Don’t let rejection isolate you, alienate you, or depress you. Instead, have a support network of people who care about you, encourage you, and help you. Have a mentor who can advise you, teach you, and guide you.

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Remember, rejection is not the end, but the beginning. Rejection is not a failure, but a lesson. Rejection is not a problem, but a solution. Rejection is not a weakness, but a strength. Rejection is not a curse, but a blessing.

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How to Get Help from Your Network

The final way to become a person of value is by getting help from your network. Your network is not only a source of value but also a resource of value. Your network can help you achieve your goals faster, easier, and better. Your network can help you solve problems, create opportunities, and make a difference.

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But how do you get help from your network? How do you ask for favors, referrals, introductions, or partnerships? How do you leverage your network to grow your network and net worth?

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Here are some tips on how to do that:

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• Be specific and clear about what you need and why you need it. Don’t be vague, ambiguous, or presumptuous. Instead, be precise, concise, and respectful. Explain what you are looking for, what you are offering, and what you are expecting.
• Be selective and strategic about who you ask and how you ask. Don’t spam, beg, or demand. Instead, target, research, and customize. Choose the right people who can help you, who know you, and who trust you. Find out what they care about, what they need, and what they want. Tailor your request to their interests, goals, and values.
• Be grateful and generous about what you get and what you give. Don’t take, abuse, or waste. Instead, appreciate, reciprocate, and share. Thank the people who help you, who support you, and who refer you. Give back to them, to your network, and to your community. Share your results, your insights, and your resources.

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Remember, your network is not only a source of value but also a resource of value. Your network can help you achieve your goals faster, easier, and better. Your network can help you solve problems, create opportunities, and make a difference.

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Conclusion

Now that you know how to become a person of value and grow your network and net worth, what are you waiting for? Start applying these tips today and see the results for yourself. You have the potential to be a successful person and a valuable networker. You just need to take action and be persistent.

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If this article helped you and you would like to learn more, I would be happy to give you some more information. Send me an email or call me. I am here to help you.

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This is Christopher Njokanma, signing off.

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