The Power to Change
The power to effect change through the practice of Connectedness is the result of small things done with great love—by all of us—and in the process, great things get done.

The Power to Change

We’ve all heard it: the bedrock prayer of the 12-step recovery program begun by Alcoholics Anonymous: “Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” Simple, concise truth – but finding such qualities as serenity in the face of suffering, the courage to combat evil, and the wisdom to understand one’s limitations is daunting. But if you’re a caring, aware person, you know something must be done to confront the plethora of woes in the 21st Century.

I’ve always been struck by Martin Luther King’s philosophical yet practical response when asked why he believed non-violent civil disobedience could realistically triumph over violence and hatred. “Because you can’t fight fire with fire, you must fight fire with water.” I paraphrase Theologian Jim Wallis’ idea, “Hope is believing in spite of the evidence and then making the evidence change.” Young people embrace “Be the change you want to see.” And the late, great anthropologist Margaret Mead offered a battleplan when she said, “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has.” The power to change is real and it lives in each of us.

So, what does that mean for you? Whether you lead a business or don’t know how to read a finance balance sheet, are a lifelong activist or never bothered to vote – no matter where you live, your occupation, gender, race, political views, socio-economic status, do what you can, where you can, how you can, when you can. For example, if you’re the head, or even a member, of a business line in your organization, take concrete steps to improve how that unit functions by changing your own behavior. Reach out to others who share your view and engage them in your effort. Change can start bottom-up (or top-down if you occupy a leadership role). I’ve seen it happen both ways and it always turns on individuals taking responsibility, however small they start.

There’s no denying that all change is very hard. Just trying to stop smoking or stay on a diet can feel impossible. We should still think we can complex issues through reason and common cause? Yes! I’ve worked with all kinds of folks in a variety of dire situations and helped them untie Gordian knots through what I call Connectedness. Not pie-in-the-sky thinking, it’s a process that helps create solutions, rather than be victims of problems. The actions and new reality born of Connectedness, of seeing that we’re inextricably linked, allows us to transcend fear, hate and exclusively self-interest, to turn bad into good in our personal and professional situations.

You just can’t do it alone. And you certainly can’t effect change if you don’t believe change can be made. Connectedness is belief in the strength, importance and result of compassion, empathy, fairness, acceptance of human differences, the capacity to examine and expand one’s sense of identity, and a readiness to do one’s own small part. So long as you’re distressed by any aspect of the present and concerned about the future, connecting and acting with others not only makes you happier and more fulfilled; you also have the power to lead real change.

We have reason to take heart because considerable positive change has been made – not by magic, but through research, resolution and action taken by an army of small groups of thoughtful, committed citizens. One hundred years ago, women in America couldn’t vote, African-Americans were as constricted by Jim Crow as they had been by slavery, homosexuality was viewed as a criminal disease, medical science was still in its infancy, we were just starting to recover from the devastation of World War I, coping poorly with large-scale immigration, and grappling with the enormous changes wrought by the Industrial Revolution.

Yet despite those horrors and the ones confronting us today (economic, racial and gender inequity, global pandemics, climate degradation, wars, migration, xenophobia, etc.), the world is actually doing better. In global terms, there’s less poverty, hunger and infant mortality; greater access to health care and education; and fewer people without drinkable water or sanitation. There’s still an enormous amount of work to do to improve the lives of those who don’t yet benefit from these advances – but it is doable.

Mother Teresa – a venerable albeit controversial figure – put it simply: “We cannot do great things, but we can do small things with great love.” I contend that the power to effect change through the practice of Connectedness is the result of small things done with great love – by all of us – and in the process, great things get done.

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Nadine B Hack is CEO beCause Global Consulting and Senior Advisor Global Citizens Circle. She gives keynote addresses globally. She advises senior leaders and teams. She’s writing a book, “The Power of Connectedness” with a foreword by the late Nobel Peace Laureate Archbishop Desmond Tutu. A version of this appeared in Forbes Councils where she's a regular contributor.

Emma Somers

The Compassionate Leader. Change & Team Development Consultant.

1 年

John Sidebotham BEM FCILT a good read for you and some inspiration for your weekly content.

Edward Lewis

Blackstone Real Estate Income Trust

1 年

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Kate Trafford FPSA

Master Coach | Speaker: Authentic Success | Author of Get There, Love Here!

1 年

"... the power to effect change through the practice of Connectedness is the result of small things done with great love – by all of us – and in the process, great things get done." Beautiful, Nadine. Thank you for sharing.

Alessandra C. Marazzi

Weaver of Relational Spaces | Founder of Mycelium Collaborative, IMD Executive Coach | Research Scholar @ EUSG | EMCC | MSc | EMBA

1 年

An ethics of deep and person-specific care … yes great things come from th smallest moves enacting love and care

Bernie Mayall

Experienced and values driven serial chair, exec, trustee, non-exec and governor. Loving what I do, learning more every day, putting it to good use.

1 年

I love this article. It addresses complexity with an admirable and encouraging simplicity. Most of my business is about change and along with all the other factors at heart it is about “We cannot do great things, but we can do small things with great love.”. Thank you xxx

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