The Power of being nice

The power of being nice

We have all most likely heard the saying “nice guys finish last.” Usually implying that it takes being a little ruthless to make it in this world.?And as we all have lived in this world for a while we see where that sentiment comes from.?But what about the nice guy?

The one person who is genuinely nice.?They do not appear to have ulterior motives, or simply desire to use the situation to their advantage regardless of whom it might hurt.?They honestly want to be nice.?They show up to help.?They arrive on time to make someone else’s day better.?

Being nice generally has at its heart the purpose of improving the day or mental health of another person.?They seem to have the desire to support their friends and neighbors.?To help others succeed.?This desire is not actually a hindrance to their success if you let them define success.?Now if we let society define success then yes, it is.?Not placing your own interests first often results in our failure to achieve society’s definition of success.?

The power of being nice is this; they succeed in their goals.?Even people who look down on them often still like them.?They might not believe they are the smartest person in any room, but they are unable to stop liking them and even admire them a little.?A nice person often sleeps well as they do not have anger, frustration, or many other negative emotions swirling in their thoughts as they try to sleep.?

Do they often rise to the top of their company? No.?But then many of them do not want to.?Now please do not misunderstand, just because they are nice does not mean they are not able to rise to the top.?It does not mean that they are not capable of achieving greatness.?It often means that they are not willing to do anything it takes to get there.?

The power of being nice is simply this; you like who you are at the end of the day.

Blessings?